"Letter to Peach" gives a glimpse of how parent-child relationships can get along well

Hyman 2022-04-20 09:02:29

After reading "A Letter to Peach", I felt that the story of an unfinished letter written by my father to my daughter was a bit tearful? I saw from it that it was the relationship between the child and his parents. The first is with the silent father, and the second is with the nagging mother. 1⃣Father is always the kind of taciturn person in our impression, who doesn't know how to express, let alone coax people. In the film, Taozi originally wanted to make a surprise for his father and booked him a concert ticket for the first date with his mother, but unexpectedly, his father needed to travel on that day and did not have time to attend. As a child, Taozi couldn't understand it at the time, but she was very angry and directly expressed "I hate dad the most." He even said, "You don't have to come back." I didn't expect the ending and never came back. When she found out that her once-beloved father could never come back, Taozi remembered the cruel words she said to her father when she left, and she didn't have time to apologize, but she never had the chance. Then, while sorting out Dad's belongings, he found an unfinished letter, or more precisely, it only started with "To Peaches". Taozi burst into tears when she saw it, her heart was full of remorse, but it was of no avail. In many cases, the deepest hurt often comes from the closest people. When we were young, our parents responded to our needs and made us accustomed to asking, but we didn’t know how to appreciate and cherish what our parents gave us. Especially when we have conflicts with our parents, we can't hear their explanations, let alone empathize with them. So in this case, I said all kinds of harsh words unconsciously, and there was no psychological pain point at all, and I felt it was right. After being ruthless and unable to speak, it is very difficult to take it back, but it left a knot in my heart. Think more about the hard work of your parents, understand their hearts, say something caring about yourself and fill your family with joy, why not do it? 2⃣Dad Peach left, because of the pressure in Tokyo, my mother took Peach back to the countryside... At the beginning, I came to this small town and found that compared with the prosperity of the big city, it is backward and dilapidated. Taozi is very inappropriate, and she doesn't want to deal with people here. In addition, her mother leaves early and returns late every day, and she doesn't know how to make friends, so she is very lonely. When she encountered monsters but found that no one could ask for help, she had to wander around. Fortunately, these "monsters" were her patron saints. After a series of things happened with the monsters (the details of the monsters are omitted), but some incomprehensible things also happened. Broken. My mother came and saw the fruits and melons all over the floor, thinking that there were peaches Did something bad, but it wasn't. Although Peaches has repeatedly stated that he did not make it himself, he cannot prove it. Mom slapped her angrily, and Peach got angry. Many times, adults are used to insisting on their own understanding, and they don't care about the voice of the child, which has caused a lot of tragedies and made the parent-child relationship farther and farther away. Sometimes seeing is not necessarily believing, how to judge whether the child is telling the truth? And how to communicate well with children in the case of conflict, the relationship between parents and children really needs to learn how to get along in a friendly way.

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A Letter to Momo quotes

  • Momo Miyaura: [last words to her father] You're selfish, and you're a liar. I don't care if you come back.