Phoebe is able to see a world with clear hallucinations. And controlled by the hallucinations.
But I can't see it. Can't hear. No hallucinations either.
But I try to find a place, which is not the same as here, but inextricably linked, and sometimes, there is more important than here. There is eternity. There is love. From there, I can feel eternity and feel true love.
There is order.
I have a book called Conversations with God. He helped me understand that there is love and morality in this world, which is the love and morality that God has.
I always give an example. Mother Teresa said: Whenever you are treated by others, you must be full of love, be kind to others, and provide assistance as you can, even when you are slandered, attacked, or betrayed by others. choose. Because, this has nothing to do with those other people, this choice is just between me and God. It's something between me and that world.
Phoebe, the wonderland she chose, if she had chosen the book I read, she would have heard more good advice and found it helpful when she was confused and down.
When I don't understand why something is going to be unacceptable to me, I play a game of cards. Angel Command Solitaire. Cards will answer my doubts, or give me inspiration.
I cannot guarantee that I will understand exactly what the cards mean every time.
In fact, I understand the words on the cards again and again, layer by layer. According to my real experience, to confirm.
In fact, everyone lives in a world of his own. Difficulty even communicating with others. Maybe, you don't have Wonderland, and you don't have my "Conversation with God" and Angel Solitaire, but you have your own set of things to help you understand the complex world we all live in. You must also have faith.
Just like the principal in the movie, believe in "rules", children must be punished when they make mistakes, this is the rule, children can't move on their own without the guidance of adults ------- you are not in many public places Did you see this rule? No one is going to ask why this provision is made, and whether this provision applies to a specific situation. Like Phoebe, why does she spit, and she must be punished for spitting, and punished for her most craving acting opportunity? The children did their own rehearsals and it turned out great. The excellence of the children is beyond imagination. Who would think so? In the film, there is only the female teacher, and she alone thinks the children are excellent. Even Phoebe's parents think she has a problem, a big problem, they even feel guilty about it, anxious about it, throwing tantrums about it, wanting to get rid of the baby for it, mothers who think like that more than one. This is not wrong. A mother who wants to get rid of her child, has this idea, is it a sinful mother? I'm sure a lot of people think so. There are also people who identify Phoebe this way. The most terrifying thing is that these people also think of themselves in this way.
We have something magical and sacred that we don't understand. All thoughts and ideas have a reason. Of course, Phoebe's principle is that in Wonderland, the rules are broken, but they never hurt others, and they don't hurt beauty. Phoebe is a very, very good kid.
Accept yourself calmly. Also accept external feedback. Maybe understanding, maybe misunderstanding, it doesn't matter.
In our hearts, there is a world where all that is said and done can be explained.
Which world have you chosen for yourself?
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