A place is called Miyang, and the story takes place in Miyang. The title of the film is Miryang, the secret sun.
The first feeling after reading it is the denial of religion. Religion is a paradox. On reflection overnight, religion is only one part.
The heroine had relied on her father and husband before, but none of them could give her the support she wanted. She was not understood when she was young, and was locked in the bathroom for doing something wrong; after meeting her husband, he did not understand her love for music; after her husband left, she hoped to gain some spiritual comfort by living in her husband's hometown, but her son was murdered ; After her son died, she relied on religion for peace. Again, religion failed to give her the kind of complete support she longed for. She thought that God was on her side, she felt that she was God's darling, because God gave her abundant love enough to forgive the poor murderer of her son. When the murderer told her that he too was loved by God, she suddenly felt deceived. The honor that was originally earned by devoting one's heart to goodness is just something that everyone can have, and can have it casually. Suddenly lost the thrust of kindness and strength.
After relying on and not being able to, switch to vindictive denial. Her father, husband, and hometown could not take revenge, and she concentrated her firepower to fight against God. A kind of confrontation with nothingness, a fist hit, just hit the air, which made her chest tight and resentful to the point of fainting.
He was eventually sent to a psychiatric hospital for treatment. This is the beginning of a self-salvation. When she came out of the nursing home, she began to see the sun, and the people around her were saving themselves. The little sister who used to hang out with the gangsters, entered the Shaojiao Institute, learned the skills of haircutting, and finally started to move towards a positive accumulated life; the owner of the clothing store, who had a poor business and was unwilling to renovate and change, finally The storefront was renovated with a ruthless heart, and the business was greatly improved.
Self-rescue, until you feel like you are about to be crushed, you can't be ruthless and fight back.
The sun in my heart can only be myself. Relying on the mountains to fall, relying on water to run. That's what it's saying.
Want to talk about other things in our life by extension.
A few days ago, I saw an analysis of why Er Qing failed to win Fu Heng's heart in "Strategy of Yanxi Palace". Well said. Er Qing has been holding back for 6 years, and finally has the opportunity to marry Fu Heng. This opportunity is not particularly glorious in itself. So her first success was based on a wrong attempt. This is critical. One's "first pot of gold" is full of deceit, and it should be cleaned up as soon as possible after having this capital. I have to say that when she was newly married, she wanted to be white. But Fu Heng ignored her for a whole year. There is no need to use Fu Heng's professionalism as an excuse. If he is truly in love, he will not delay the expression of his love if he is serious about his career. This forced Er Qing to take risks and make deals with the devil again, and fight Fu Heng in a ruthless way.
This is instinct. First, forbearance, compromise, please, and constantly use positive energy for self-psychological construction. After reaching a critical point, it will turn to completely negative revenge. It is actually the same as the heroine's dependence on and confrontation with God in "Miryang". When it comes to the process of confrontation, the taste will change, and it will even become a trend of total loss. This trend has been formed since the beginning of dependence. If you are dependent on people, you will inevitably do some extreme things involuntarily. There is also a good example. In "Story of Yanxi Palace", after Concubine Xian became the queen, after enjoying a period of harmony with the emperor, she fell in love with and relied on the emperor, and her layout and judgment were no longer rational. , keep failing. On the contrary, Wei Yingluo, who loved Fu Heng before, but did not depend on her, did not sink or appear rational after losing Fu Heng. She only loves herself. To the emperor, she is also loyal and submissive, but never dependent. So no matter what the situation is, she can live a wonderful life. She only relies on herself, she will never abandon herself, how can she despair and lose courage if she does not abandon herself.
Giving is more enjoyable than being loved, but it is also riskier. This is the case in life, don't rely on anyone, do everything you can to solve it yourself, design a good track for yourself, and go on no matter what happens; the same is true in love, don't be obsessed with anyone, what you pursue is love, Not someone's love. See clearly the core of your pursuit, the other is just the form and carrier it presents, don't work hard for the carrier, and don't depend on a carrier.
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