why forgive

Kacie 2022-04-20 09:02:26

A young and talented widow comes to the town where her husband wants to go, hoping to start a good life with her son. Unexpectedly, before the new life began to unfold, his son was torn apart.
The heroine, who had lost her beloved son, accidentally broke into a Christian meeting and was infected by the scene of collective brainwashing. After crying bitterly, she converted.
It's just that her beliefs are just an excuse to heal the pain. He said forgiveness in his mouth, but in fact there was always a hidden resentment in his heart. He was urged to challenge forgiveness, so he went to the prison to visit the murderer, but he didn't expect that the other party would also become a Christian, love and be loved by God. All the crimes he committed before were because of this great and selfless love. And a write-off.
Is there any reason? Why can a murderer still look at himself with pity, smile and say "forgive everything", just because he loves God and God loves him? I originally thought that I was the one who let go of the dashing life of the past, and would definitely live a much happier life than the person in prison, but I didn't expect that the person who should spend his life with the only condemnation of his conscience turned out to be Get a head start on the true meaning of happiness - God even forgives such a person? I originally thought that I could stand on the commanding heights of morality and look down on people who are still suffering and sinking in the mundane world. I didn't expect that people who should be forgiven would actually say forgive themselves. Isn't this a big joke?
Her deliberately suppressed resentment finally gushed out. Since she didn't forgive her and the other party had already detached herself, the rest of her crawling on this filthy ground should always find a way to vent.
So she still hates it. Hate murderers and Christians who have transformed murderers into saints, but in the end, they still hate themselves and the world. Why should you forgive, why should you suppress your despair? She destroys, she self-harms, she collapses.
Fortunately, there is a man who is silently guarding by his side. Although I don't think she likes him that much, but when she hates the world and wants to destroy her own existence, having such a person by her side can still bring her back to reality.
At the end of the film, after returning home from the nursing home, she seems to be able to put down her anger a little and live a good life. Maybe time will calm her anger, her hatred. However, all I thought about was her face and demeanor. The young woman who used to be able to play the piano and smile will never come back.

In fact, I watched this film several years ago, but today I was suddenly asked about religion, which reminded me of the year when I was groaning and pretending to be religious.
Because of what I want, I choose to believe in one thing, just like the heroine in the film, in order to no longer be sad, she chooses to let go, choose love, and choose Yuanyou.
However, if you are extremely stubborn, your obsessions are too deep, and your self-hypnosis is not strong enough, it will eventually be hopeless. The various negative effects of evasion that you choose to ignore, the resentment is deep, and it will eventually erupt.
So, for stubborn people, this is not the solution.

Many people say that this is a movie about silently guarding love, religious forgiveness, forgiveness, etc. But I always felt that this film was a silent satire on the way of Christian preaching. There was a similar scene in Borat I watched recently. Those weak and helpless people gathered together and cried to each other, and found that there were people who were worse than themselves, and suddenly felt a lot easier.
It's this loser mentality.
Of course there are also the reverse. All kinds of sharing miracles, all kinds of magic inspirational stickers.
I'm not saying that Christians are bad, no, but it's always a good thing to lead people to be good. I just can't stand the MLM brainwashing party.
Wouldn't it be better if you love God silently. Why should other people love everyone without distinction?

So, why do you need to forgive? Anyway, as narrow as I am, I will not forgive. Deliberately forgetting, and not really letting go. I just continue my original life, and when I remember it, I grit my teeth; when I can't remember it, just live like that.
I will not forgive. I will disdain, will despise, will hate, will ignore. But I will never forgive. The next time we meet, I won't laugh at the grudges.
It will never be cheap to hurt someone who has hurt me.

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