Originally I was reading the novel, but the names of the characters were different, the plot was a bit slow or the turning point was too big, and I couldn't read it, so I watched the movie first. You may not understand it. The novel talks about Emma having a baby and being pregnant when she meets a romantic young man. The movie completely erases this part.
In fact, this kind of movie is really impressive.
It can be said that Emma loves vanity, but I feel that she is too simple, too eager for romantic love and vigorous passion.
Comparing Emma and Anna Karenina, both husbands are dull or incomprehensible. Emma is very free, but she also strives to improve herself. She plays the piano, reads, and wants to plan in the garden, but she is very interested in planning the garden, but when her husband says that it is too cold, her husband does not pay attention to it when she plays the piano, and she is interested in what she reads. Bobo, when he wanted to discuss with his husband, he said that it was unnecessary, and he put out his enthusiasm in one sentence. Living in a small town for four years, I never thought of taking my wife to see her favorite plays or musicals, and so on. She also wanted to talk to the priest, but the priest felt that she had no worries about food and clothing, and her husband loved her very much, so she shouldn't be troubled. But spiritual emptiness is the unspeakable bitterness, and it is understood as moaning or asking too much (even in modern times, if you choose to divorce for this reason, it will not be understood by most people.) . Alas, don't women have the right to pursue love affairs with their husbands after marriage?
At this time, the temptation outside marriage can easily be mistaken for the love that he is pursuing. The romantic young man seems to understand her, and the other one feels that a little bit is not a good thing at first glance, but Emma, who is not deep in the world, seems to understand her. I can't tell the difference between a moment of passion and true love. In the face of the married self, does the other party really love themselves more than the society's evaluation (generally not). Maybe Anna Karenina is lucky in this regard, if they were in contemporary times, maybe the ending would be different?
The guy on credit is even more hateful. At the beginning, he told Emma that money is not a problem, and finally because he couldn't get her or knew that she was with others, alas, the movie didn't give a very specific reason, and finally forced Emma with the debt. In a dead end, Emma hurt her self-esteem, and it seems that she is not welcome when she goes to church. Where should she go?
It’s easy to siege a city and it’s hard to defend a city. When two people get married, they don’t have to maintain it. But the husband wants to pursue a career, and the wife wants to support the husband and teach children. Let's share our inner thoughts (in fact, not only women, men also need passion), how about creating love myths in the firewood, rice, oil and salt?
I think it is possible.
I think there is nothing wrong with wanting to pursue romance in ordinary life, but in fact, there is no need to follow romanticism as a doctrine, and the author criticizes romanticism that is divorced from reality (in fact, any doctrine that is divorced from reality will have a negative impact) , it will indeed cause the other party and yourself to be in pain. The tragedy of Emma and Anna is that they take love too seriously, thinking that only vigorous love is the source of happiness in life. They are obviously two talented women in other aspects, but because they are too eager for love, they can't see the man around them who is pursuing them. The mentality of the squire portrayed by Flaubert is very realistic, and it is skill from the beginning. Women still have to learn to love themselves very well. Dressing up is to please themselves. Learning to cook food is not to trap a man's stomach. Maybe you won't be disappointed. The emotional world is so vast, and love is only part of it. .
And who doesn't want to manage their love well? At the beginning of the book, Emma also refuses the temptation of extramarital affairs, and wants to work hard for her husband and children.
In the movie, Emma also told the maid that as long as he understood her more and listened to her more, it would not be the case.
But it takes two people's efforts.
For example, remember some special festivals, and give some small gifts that are not expensive but very thoughtful (in fact, women have enough affection, not material things, Emma also said, "There is no fire in winter, so what does it matter"); occasionally look at each other carefully, Change the hair accessories and praise her (in fact, later, I feel that the doctor may know something because she would praise Emma for being beautiful during dinner, he loves her, but he doesn't understand her, when she first arranged the dinner carefully, He only glanced at it, and said lightly that it was unnecessary.); exchanged their thoughts and thoughts in life (and the doctor had no talent and no deep thoughts), resulting in a collision of ideas.
Of course, women also need to have a small emotional world other than love, such as
Do your job well (at the time, it was almost impossible in those days, but contemporary women can);
friendship;
Read more types of books (don’t only read emotional books, for example, I recently started to read books on philosophy and economics. I don’t know where I’ve read books, but people who don’t read enough are actually the most confused, and I also see A book reviewer said the right thing "If Madame Bovary had read Madame Bovary", maybe the ending would have been different);
Take up a hobby and immerse yourself in it;
the most important,
Learn to enjoy alone time.
Sometimes I sigh, in fact, as a woman, it can be so colorful.
And I am also trying.
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