Before watching the movie, I thought it would be a bland account of everyone's destination at the end, but I didn't expect Hagrid to take it so seriously.
The film continues to explore the unfinished issues in the play, Patrick's search for a new way of life and a new self, Augstin's confusion about where he belongs, Dom's wandering about midlife crisis and life ideals, and over-reliance on close friends. The end of season two leaves us with a lot of question marks, and most people have a home in the movie, or a life compromise. It is undeniable that "compromise" is indeed the normal state of our life. Many people have spent most of their lives and found that they still haven't lived the way they wanted, so we compromise, compromise with reality, and then settle for our own lives. Love, marriage, family, the director tells us that all mortals are the same, these are the homes of most of us.
Only Patrick is still confused, or in Kevin's words, still running away. He has always wanted to find a new self, at least some more exciting life experiences. But he was always bound by his past self, and he finally took a step but fled. As the aunt who is looking for marriage said, now we all inevitably have traces of the past. Patrick, who used to stick to the rules and looked very well-behaved in the eyes of others, has always restrained his courage. That he came from an ordinary background and an ordinary life that has remained unchanged for 30 years. He is used to doing everything step by step and is not adaptable to change. When the 30-year-old wanted to escape, he found that the dungeon was already a prison, so he finally lost his courage and fled back to his comfort zone in embarrassment. This may be the regret of Patrick's life, and it is precisely because of this that it leads to the regret of him and Kevin.
PK's emotional journey has only been two years since the first meeting in front of the subway station. The long life they will face in the future seems extremely short, but when they are together, they are more than most of their lives. Be happy all the time, Kevin dances stupidly, chats about those childish cards, Patrick puts on Kevin's sweater, loves you, and has similar interests, in fact, your hearts are beating at the same frequency, it's just your character that makes you Doomed to live two different lives.
The reunion of the two people thought it would be a bland farewell or a resurgence of each other to accommodate each other, but the impatient Kevin just poured out the anger of nine months. He was annoyed at Patrick's retreat, and his candid love was in vain. In addition to anger, there is helplessness, and there is always an emptiness in my heart that can no longer be filled. He knew that from now on the two parted ways, and the world they went to had nothing to do with each other anymore. Maybe he was afraid that he really made the wrong payment at the beginning, so he asked the most classic phrase "Were you actually in love with me?" between couples who broke up. mouth. But love is only love, and knowing that you have loved will only make regrets more painful in the future.
For nine months, he couldn't wait for you in pain and anger for too long, so he planned to move forward and compromise with himself. No matter how wonderful every moment of the past was, it could only be turned into a dusty memory. Never go back to the past.
In front of the subway station, he tells you that he loves you as always, that he really loves you so much that he immediately disarmed and surrendered after seeing your tears. But he has started a new life, he knows that the two have come to an end, but he hopes that no matter what the story will be, you can live happily. He branded a final kiss on your lips, stroked your earlobe, and told you it was over.
Probably every relationship is similar, the summer when Elio and Oliver can't go back in the peach film, Gabriel's final farewell in "Blonde Man", the life that Chales and Sebastian missed in "After the Wind and Rain", and then we are still there Walk, just no longer side by side.
This may be the norm for many of us, and some of the people we thought we would spend the rest of our lives with turned out to be just glimpses in our long years. We will all regret "I could have" and "if". Unfortunately, there has never been an if. Many regrets can only be regrets.
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