I finished watching this film last week, and the review has been delayed for a long time, so I can’t watch the new film with peace of mind in the near future. I must finish it first. Although it's been a long time, I still have a deep impression of the plot in the movie, "I thought I understood it before, but when I was there, I realized I didn't understand it before, and now I really understand it." That's the gist of it, In the boy's life comes a girl Parmat from a world with opposite gravity. Parmat can only live on the roof in the boy's world. One wrong step is to fall into the endless sky, until the boy enters Parmat's world, When I became an upside-down person, I realized that the fear of looking at the sky, the helplessness, the trembling and not daring to move forward. It should be that year on the Huashan cableway. The two chains on the side are moving forward cautiously, tremblingly, or even more so.
I remember when I was doing mock counseling two years ago, a classmate said to me, "I understand you", I was very angry at that time, and I was outraged, "I have lived for more than 20 years, and I have experienced so many things, only a few Minutes, you tell me you understand me, what do you understand me?" That's how I fought back at the time. Or, this is the answer I saw in the film. I have never been there, and the so-called understanding is nothing but self-imagination.
During this period of time, I happened to listen to Jane Lili's radio station and listen to a few counselors to empathize. This is a counselor's weapon, but it is not as simple as imagined. The phrase "I understand you" is probably what many counselors would like to express in counseling. After all, what clients need is the most rare sense of identity, but when to express it is difficult to grasp, at least as defensive as I am. You can't express yourself in front of people.
A long time ago, I saw a question on Zhihu, "Do consultants need a lot of social experience?" I wrote my answer at that time. Yes, consultants are sensitive and aware of their emotions, but at the same time It takes constant situational experience to empathize with oneself, and constant empathy can lead to immersive experience, and one’s own experience can be said to be a material library.
Over and over again just want to express a meaning, a bit pessimistic and helpless reality, people are lonely, everyone's experience is unique, everyone's feelings are unique, maybe only after experiencing the same situation. A little bit of common experience, which is why so many people are very easy to form a group when they experience similar situations, and it is very easy to have a resonance and a sense of commonality.
On the other hand, understanding is actually not that important. What is important is the willingness and sincerity of trying to understand.
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