this movie is generally a more lovable and relaxed love movie. As the saying goes, art is higher than life and comes from life. From this film, I can still see more or less the life, love and marital status of the French people. When I savoured the French love situation and compared it with the Chinese love situation, I felt a little helpless regret.
It seems that it is not just this movie. The protagonists in many Western movies treat love as images of daring to love and hate. The heroine in the play, when she likes her boyfriend, will stay with him and love him, and even go abroad to find a man to marry and divorce in order for the two to be together smoothly (of course, I believe that only a second marriage can last long. Not very wise); when she doesn't love him, she also has the courage to give up the 10-year relationship and simply tell the other party, I don't love you anymore, I'm leaving, and I'm going to pursue novel, heart-pounding love. All the families in the play are second marriages, and it seems to demonstrate the foreigners' daring to love and daring to hate characters from the side - they are together when they love each other, and they are separated when they don't. In turn, looking at the real life of Chinese women, there are a few who can be so free and easy. When the love is just beginning, they will think about the man's family and future, and feel that they will always be weak when it comes to premarital sex. one side. After being together for a few years, if you don't get married, you should be urged by your family. You feel that your life and marriage are not guaranteed if you don't get married. Therefore, there are many scenes in Chinese romance films where the male and female protagonists love each other but miss each other because the man is too poor. After many years of reunion, the two have tears in their eyes, and they feel that they were young and young, and then the play ends.
Western countries treat love with daring to love, dare to hate, and candid and direct; while Chinese treat love with tangled thoughts and indecision. The reason is to pursue different. What foreigners pursue in love is heartbeat, passion, and the novelty created by two people. What Chinese people pursue in love is companionship, stability, and the guarantee for the life of two people. This is especially evident in Chinese women, so some people say that girls have no love, and whoever treats her well, she will leave with whomever. If you want to ask the reason again, in the final analysis, it is still an economic problem. In developed countries, when the individual's survival is adequately guaranteed, there are naturally fewer economic factors involved in love. In China, hey, it can only be said that life is not easy. According to Maslow's hierarchy of needs theory (physiology, safety, social interaction, respect, and self-actualization), people always have to satisfy their own survival needs and can survive only. There are deeper needs. Compared with men, girls in China are a little weaker, and in such an environment, the freedom in love is even less pitiful.
I wonder if the love of foreigners may be closer to the essence of love? Love is a feeling of rapid heartbeat, physical and mental pleasure, different novelty and surprise. I always feel that regardless of region, skin color, and human nature are common, to become a woman who dares to love and hate in China requires more wisdom, effort and courage.
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