One such thing happened in my life circle: I have a senior sister who is one year older than me. She is very, very nice, but she is not very beautiful. Although her parents are teachers, they are not very full-hearted. Family, in this situation, she found a teacher. I don't know how long I talked about it. In short, I started talking about marriage. The reason is that both parties are in their thirties. When the man came to the door, my senior sister's father said first, you haven't known each other for a long time, should you continue to understand? Finally, I added a sentence, do you want to buy a house before you consider getting married? After saying this, the man went back and considered for one night, and then proposed to break up.
The whole thing was reported by my mother and me, and my mother said, I don't know how to persuade my senior sister to do well. I listened for a while, but finally said that the man actually doesn't love her, or doesn't want to get married that much, so it's okay not to be together. But having said that, I think it’s silly to say that, because many women are not, or can’t get love from marriage, but it doesn’t mean that they don’t desire love, nor does it mean that they reject marriages without love. At least someone speaks. At least when you are sick, someone will take care of you, and at least after the quarrel, you will have a home like everyone else. This world will never be equal.
There are differences in appearance and wisdom among women. Some of them are lively and attractive, but some are boring, but it's not someone who chooses them.
Everyone wants to be beautiful and smart, and everyone is afraid that they are unflattering.
Pu Shao recommended "Pride and Prejudice" to me. She wrote on her blog: "Please tell me, is it better to learn Greek well or dance well?" An elderly man, again when we turned around for the last time He bowed his head and asked me, and then he turned around to show his courtesy to a girl next to me-Sarah Dunant said in "The Birth of Venus." The same British writers, although it has been several centuries, the taste is basically the same.
I couldn't find the movie version of "Pride and Prejudice" she said, but only found a TV series version, but I think no matter how the story is remake, there are still some flavors the same.
As I think, we all grew up with the same self-esteem and low self-esteem. Those beautiful women are jealous of the wisdom of other women behind their backs. Those wise women are jealous of unintentional women. They can let go, and those who let go are jealous. A splendid woman who can rumbling through the floating life is so lively that people can't let go of their eyes. As I think, we are all like peacocks, we are afraid that we are not beautiful enough, so we go to study, we hang one feather after another, we try our best to open the screen, just hope to find the best one to continue the offspring or Survive.
I have always believed that it is our instinct. When it is beautiful, we can call it love, but if there are not enough feathers, if the screen is turned on, the day will never come?
We are a group of people who are accustomed to stories. Love stories are divided into categories. Qiong Yao lights up the talented classical beauties, Snow White comforts the troubled wealthy daughters, and the poor orphans think that they are Cinderella, and Elizabeth is just one. The daughter of a middle class. These categories will not affect us if we have a story, just like I like Jane Eyre's love, Jane Eyre's way of love.
I don't doubt the beauty of this story. When I saw the cover of the movie, I was quite tempted. In fact, she or the author's favorite and the favorite of millions of readers, but she is not perfect. Everything about her is just from her class. Because the family is not considered poor, they all have read books and love good talent education, or because of different interests, they may be good at piano and embroidery at the other, they may Close to the lower-level farmers, but not so rustic, they may also be close to the upper-class people, but not so restrictive.
When I was very young, I seemed to have read comments about Jane Austen, which meant that her view of love actually believed that reason was more than emotion. Love at first sight and exaggerated love excitement are not desirable, commentator He also made a bold evaluation: In fact, in Elizabeth's mind, the villain Wicca is the villain who really makes her like or have been in love. She just chose a more "appropriate" life and love. Elizabeth is such a sensible and sentimental girl. Eighteen-year-old Jane Austen may have never thought that love and love are based on luck, and has nothing to do with whether a woman is perfect or not.
In my reading career, I have not liked this book that much.
As for the TV series, I can't say what year and which country version it is. Just like that book, there are some subtle waves in the ordinary, so I can let me finish it. The clothes are exquisite. I like the dancing and fancy hair styles inside, as well as the scenery of the manor. This is an era when there are no telephones, and looking at the letters passing by, I feel very novel.
Elizabeth's actor is a little more beautiful, so that in the original book, half of the beauty that describes her as less than Jin is empty. However, TV dramas with a strong aesthetic philosophy do not know how to use an unbeautiful actress anyway.
Under this interpretation, Elizabeth is a girl who loves to laugh, sometimes even a smile that knows everything but just doesn't want to say it. It seems that the director and the actor think she is a very insightful image of a woman. But Darcy's actor has a lot of restraint. It seems that the director thinks that characters like him are only arrogant because he rarely likes such activities. He just uses a tougher attitude to cover up his uncomfortableness. With these changes in the character, the only constant is that the woman eventually became Mrs. Naxi, the hostess of the manor.
But when the ending came, I was indeed shocked by a few details.
Because of the adaptation, some conversations were added. One is: After Elizabeth rejected her cousin Collins’ proposal, Collins quickly became engaged to her friend Charlotte. Elizabeth can be said to be unable to understand such feelings, but her sister Jin said, "Although you look down on Collins. Collins is not a bad person."
Jin who said this is not a good old man, but is explaining what is closest to the truth. From the standpoint of the bystander, he is more and more able to accept this point of view. Although he often behaves inappropriately, his feelings for a woman may be the same as another man’s feelings for the same woman. You may not like him. , Accept him, but shouldn't think that he is not qualified to be happy. The same can be proved, the big villain Wika in the story. The last shot was about him and Lydia. Wika was sitting by the bed, his wife was smiling triumphantly, and then Wika also smiled, but when he turned his head, he showed a helpless face. Such a frivolous person, but now he has a marriage that firmly binds him, or some people think that this little girl is deceived, but maybe, in this marriage, she just needs a handsome man? I thought at the time that he is not a bad person in the strict sense. He likes to flatter women, please women, and protect themselves. In fact, he is not heinous.
There are many places where I get the same feeling when watching such a movie. For example, when I was young, when I talked about the story of my parents disliked the poor and loved the rich, the most impressive thing was that the sisters were easy to marry. We always thought that we would grow old. It must mean corruption and secularity. But in watching this film, as long as my mother appears on the scene, I want to laugh. I don’t feel impatient. On the contrary, I feel that the comedy is very strong. It should be said that the previous scenes are really mothers. Supported by the drama. Probably because I can’t ignore the love in life’s instinct now. I always think about my daughter marrying a rich man, but my parents can enjoy very little. The life experience my parents have gone through is not necessarily true disrespect. The choice of the daughter, but sometimes the choice of a woman may be too impulsive, the difference between ideal love and reality is now being realized earlier and earlier.
Jin's image is still very comfortable, especially the lines I mentioned above, which makes her image very plump. She may not be sharp, but it does not mean that she really has no understanding. When her love finally came to fruition, her father took her hand and said, "Oh, I can imagine your marriage, the servants will not listen to you, because of your generosity, you will not make ends meet." Of course, the latter. My mother would not like to hear the words, but this does not exactly mean that there is no perfect person. Everyone’s marriage will encounter such and other problems because of their own personality, but fortunately, a happy marriage does not need to be. Who is perfect in personality. Although our marriage always has problems of this kind, perhaps this is enough to make us believe that when he chooses you, it is not because of your perfection, or because he loves you enough, but there is a reason that he is willing to be with you Finish this life.
Sometimes this is enough.
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