Can we change the male club?

Mariane 2022-08-21 21:58:13

About Me too movement

At the end of 2017, the first wave of Me too movement caused an uproar in the United States. All the spearheads are directed at Harvey Weinstein, a famous Hollywood film producer. It was because of him that pulp fiction was published, and Tarantino's career took off. In early 2018, when discussing this topic with the MBA team for lunch, a classmate who worked at Universal Pictures lowered his head and said silently that his sister is married to Harvey Weinstein's brother-in-law, and Harvey's child is his sister. Flower girl at wedding. We therefore did not continue to discuss it. I don’t know if I’m lucky or too young in the workplace. This is the first time I have been so close to workplace sexual harassment.

Many people say that Me too is overkill. Really? Then why is Trump's support rate still high? So why is there still Internet calling for Liu Qiangdong's injustice? In 1982, Kim Chi-mi, who was born in 1982, when the hostess was crying because of being harassed by students, her father criticized her for wearing short skirts.

In the first episode, Mitch roared when he was abandoned by the radio. He did not rape. It is only natural for women to be attracted by the power of men. Later, when he and the director friend who was also accused of complaining to each other, Mitch believed that he did not violate the victims, he was different, he attracted the women. This is basically the psychology of all accused sex capturers. They are innocent, they are successful, they attract those women, and those women use them to achieve career success. Regardless of whether these are true or not, the mere fact that they believe that women have to use men to succeed is enough to show their disrespect for women.

The media was talking about these news, but who really cared about victims like Hannah? Some online reviews say that Hannah can walk away and avoid it by himself. Really? Can you deny your career role model the opportunity to chat with you 1-1? Are you shocked when you are suddenly and gently assaulted by someone who thinks you are safe? Hannah is indeed not Ashley Brown, she swallows all her heartbreak in her stomach, and then assumes the most professional posture of a strong woman to live on. This is the only thing she wants, go forward. The only dissatisfaction with this show is that the description of Hannah's mentality is too branching. Putting together bits and pieces, Hannah's mother died young, working alone at the Big Apple, putting all her thoughts on her work, and striving for every opportunity to prove her strength. Isn't this like you, me and me who are drifting outside? Some people may not understand why she chose to stand up and tell her story. Because she has empathy. In this regard, the screenwriter and director used her friendship with Clara to illustrate. It is true that she is moving towards success step by step, but she is also suspicious of her self-image. Her promotion is all because of her experience of victimization, so has her own efforts really been affirmed? These self-doubts and contradictions finally broke the final psychological defense. It made sense that the cause of death was excessive medication. She wanted to use medication to escape this prison that seemed to be her own.

Maybe the Me too movement is not an overcorrection, but it should go to the next stage to question why men have a natural sense of superiority over women. What kind of social influence makes the public believe that boys will always be boys and women can be objectified.

About boys club and lean in

In the last episode, Alex Levy confessed to the public that she sat and watched the women around her being hurt because she was the only one who succeeded in the boys club. So she chose to stand on the male side. She looks like a co-anchor, but she is more like a female anchor for a girl next door set to fit into the American image. The poster for her photo with Mitch before was that she was leaning on Mitch's shoulder. Mitch is the pillar of the entire TV show. As she became stronger and hoped to have her own voice, Alex's approval rate in the polls was declining. When a woman is strong, she becomes not cute enough. When a woman has emotions, she is desperate and not calm enough. When women pursue self-worth, they are destined to accept more unsupportive understanding. Yes, when we enter the second year of the 21st century, these discriminations against women are still visible everywhere. What's more sad is that these discriminations come not only from men but also from women. If Bradley Jackson was a man, then she would not be called mania, but zeal.

Lean In is the first book by the famous Sheryl Sandberg in Silicon Valley, explaining the secrets of her career success. After the book went viral, she established a global non-profit organization under the name Lean In to encourage women's career growth. Ironically, her mentor Lawrence Summers, a well-known American economist and former president of Harvard University, was forced to resign because she commented in public that women's achievements in the technology industry were not mainstream because of species reasons. Indeed, the concept of Lean In is very attractive. But is this the same as the sisterhood of American universities? If you join this organization, you will get help and inspiration from the same group of women. I often think that the more people who stand at the top, the more they live in bubbles. If you want to break an organization, is it really possible to build an opposite organization?

This year I joined the school’s EDI (Equality, Diversity and Inclusion) Board. The professor of Prime Minister's affairs introduced a new concept, Allyship, to encourage straight white men to speak for the minority. I am very sympathetic, and letting the other party hear the appeal is the first step. True feminism is not arrogant, and it recognizes the difference between men and women, whether the difference comes from biology or sociology, so that women’s voices are encouraged to be heard. True feminism is civilized and cooperative.

Can we change social inequality? I think so, in the rhythm of baby step, in a gesture of refusing to be a silent person.

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