How to pursue and obtain a truly cherished love life?

Smile). After watching it, I unconsciously want to write something, because this is a movie about education? Yes. But it is also a film about life. In "Smile of the Mona Lisa", Julia Roberts plays Catherine Watson, a woman who graduated from the University of California at Berkeley and is full of freedom and reform ideals. In 1953, she went to the well-known Wesleyan Women's College as a professor of art history. In order to encourage female students to pursue their goals in life despite the shackles of traditional social values, the young female teacher faced a series of setbacks and challenges. In fact, it is not only to encourage students, but Catherine Watson in the film is also constantly breaking free from the shackles and pursuing her true life goals. Seeing this, I couldn't help but make me think of ourselves, of how we should be ourselves in this world, a person who truly deserves this life. Maybe it's difficult? But that kind of pursuit will make life truly wonderful! Someone seems to say that I like challenges, but does pursuing life goals mean like challenges? For those who like to challenge themselves, has the challenge itself become a goal? Like challenge is just a kind of psychology, a kind of competitive psychology, a kind of psychology that is not very mature, not very healthy. Pursuing a life goal should mean pursuing a life that seems to be the way it should have been, keep trying, keep trying, maybe one day find it, can you stop and enjoy life? Isn't knowing that you will never be able to satisfy yourself? Will new goals continue to emerge? Is the constant pursuit of new goals a life like an ascetic? Hehe, in fact, when we say he is an ascetic monk, he doesn't necessarily think it? Suffering for suffering, is it really so stupid? The teacher Catherine Watson in the movie was deeply loved by the students. In the end, she chose to leave the teaching chair of the Women's College. When the car slowly drove out of the school, a group of students rode a bicycle to send her off. The scene impressed me. Deep and moved! A good film not only reads a good story, but also triggers the audience's own thinking. It is not simple. But Roberts’ performance disappointed me a little bit. The real teacher should be more passionate, more thoughtful, and more profound, but there are not many scenes in the film that I like, perhaps because she has not really been a teacher. Bar? ! Doing whatever you really want to do is the main point of the film, but is that enough? Can Katherine Watson find a school she really likes? Should I be more sensible in doing what I want to do? Katherine Watson left the women's college, this means her failure, it does not mean that she succeeded. Her success is to implant the pursuit of life in the hearts of students, but if I am She, I will not be particularly happy, after all, I still need a position to guide more children, I can not wander around all day long at the mercy of others. Is Catherine Watson’s pursuit a long march alone? I think this movie triggered more thinking than answers.
Why did Catherine Watson in the film find Roberts to star? This big-mouthed beauty reminds me of the relationship between men and women. Catherine Watson Nine is an "avant-garde" woman who does not rely on men. But in the film, she was pursued by many outstanding men. Her appearance is also a major factor in winning the box office. Think about it in real life, many women often ask men to love her and cherish her a hundredfold, but why? It is not that a man cannot live without a woman; a woman also does not need to rely on a man to live. Why do men and women live together under the same roof? This question is not easy to answer. But what is the cause? The love story in the movie is often a handsome man falling in love with a peerless beauty at first sight, and then a long-distance love run that is vigorous, warm and romantic, or heartbroken. It's sighing. But no matter what, love at first sight, women's looks are outstanding, men's talent or wealth is abundant, such gifted and beautiful people deeply attracted the attention of the audience and won the box office revenue of martial arts. However, young men and women in real life are inevitably immune from the influence of these mainstream media. Men want to find beautiful and picturesque women; women want to find a gentle, considerate and well-earned man. However, why? With your own capital? It can only be an attraction that both sides of the physical world must maintain a certain distance. If you want to ask the other person to care for you in every possible way in ordinary life, you need to find the spiritual temperament that each one appreciates from long-term mutual understanding and communication. Only the attraction of spiritual temperament can overcome the closeness of the physical world. Or the gravitational change brought about by a long distance, so as to maintain a long-term tension, which will continue. Especially in reality, there are many women who are not outstanding in appearance, men with not rich family background, and everyone is ordinary people. How to pursue and obtain a truly cherished love life? Enough communication and understanding, and sufficient mental temperament are very important internal factors. Don't just count on plastic surgery. If you have time, you should fix the inner part. Don't expect love at first sight, but find someone you know enough in your life. When everything is unreliable, acquaintances are more reliable, especially young people who have the opportunity to grow together for a period of time.
The above are some fragmentary thoughts about love. Everyone often thinks about themselves and what can they bring to each other? Think about what the other person attracts you? Are both parties suitable? Think clearly, don't regret it! Haha, but it's okay to regret it. Catherine Watson in the film often regrets it.
Let’s go back to the movie. According to online reviews, "Mona Lisa’s Smile", which focuses on the university campus and the interaction between teachers and students, was used by the Hollywood media to match the warm educational film "Death" starring Robin Williams in 1989. Compared with "Poetry Society" (also known as "Spring Wind and Rain"), it is hailed as the "female version of death poetry society". Hehe, it seems that the next movie will be him.

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