When there is no blood relationship, what can we have?

Jayne 2021-12-21 08:01:11

There are instant packages, instant coffee, and instant templates in this world. We seem to have a stereotyped impression of the word instant. We think that instant things are always not good, and there is always something missing, especially when it comes to a sensitive topic like family. when.

The Crash Family movie is actually an ethical film dressed in a comedy guise. It shows the truest aspect of adoptive families. It is not funny, and even a bit heavy, because it often means trouble, tolerance, and responsibility. And love.

How can family members get along when there is no strong bond of blood ties?

Ellie and Pete took a fancy to a four-bedroom house, but they have no children. For a two-person family, the house is a bit big. They came to the foster home with a tentative attitude, and after learning what happened to the children, they decided to adopt a child and become a pair of quick parents.

They met a cool girl Lizzy.

Lizzy is a fifteen-year-old teenager, and she has a younger brother and a younger sister. The pictures of two people are like cute little angels, which is hard to refuse at first glance. In this way, Ellie and Pete began to get along with the three children at the same time.

This sudden family of five is lively, chaotic, and furious, but they are cautious and polite to each other. The original family can make jokes unscrupulously, which are all taboos here, and all the efforts made for the children often appear deliberate.

The younger brother was timid and mindless. The first reaction to the trouble was to apologize in horror. The younger sister was extremely headstrong, except for potato chips and did not eat any food. She would scream if she didn't agree with her. And Lizzy is also reaching the age of rebellion, not to mention having experienced many adoptions, she can no longer trust others easily.

Although Ellie and Pete have made full preparations, their lives have not improved. They have to deal with the three children exhaustedly all day, which makes Ellie feel desperate and regret. She had to think about whether her original decision was for these children or just to make her conscience feel better.

When the couple proposed that they wanted to give up, the family and friends unanimously angered Ellie with a sigh of relief. In anger, she immediately withdrew the proposal and decided to adopt it to the end.

Because she realized that in her mind, these children had already removed the label and became the existence of familiar family members . She did not allow anyone to make false evaluations of her children.

But it seems that a decision is just a pity, who knows how much responsibility it has to bear?

Adoptive families will always have a sense of crisis than the original family, because they all have choices. Choosing strangers to be family members, living in the same house, caring for them, protecting them, and maintaining close feelings with their relatives is not something that can be done quickly.

Ellie and Lizzy had several quarrels. Lizzy rushed out of the house in a fit of anger. When the couple came forward to pull, his brother was hurt by the nail in his instep. Several people suddenly panicked. Pete rushed to take off his jacket and wrapped his brother's feet, picked him up and got into the car. On the way to the hospital, Lizzy saw Pete comforting his brother softly, "You are very Brave, you did a good job." Lizzy felt ashamed, and the idea that only oneself could take care of his younger siblings was finally broken by this little accident.

When everything was getting better, Ellie ran into Lizzy taking nude photos in the toilet. Her boyfriend is a pervert who likes underage and takes pornographic photos. The two rushed to school in anger and gave a severe lesson to this 20-year-old young man. People, until the police arrived and sent both parties to the bureau. Only then did Ellie and Pete remember that their two children were still left in the car.

The drama takes advantage of the fast-paced here , the conflict rises quickly and goes down quickly, with a humorous lens transition to take the hidden heavy strokes, but it does relieve the audience a lot of pressure.

The mother of three children came back, and she seemed to have reformed and become a normal single mother. She would visit her children regularly, and every time she came to Lizzy, she would be extremely excited. Seeing the happy family scene, Ellie and Pete seem to have become a third party in other people's families. With hard work, are they just raising children for others? This kind of grievance made them retreat, especially when they saw the smile on Lizzy's face, that kind of inherent fetters of the native family, blood is thicker than water that others can't replace no matter how hard they work.

The court ruled that the custody of the three children belonged to their biological mothers. Finally, all efforts were about to become memories, and they were about to face separation. Lizzy happily dragged his luggage out to meet his mother, only to see the two caretakers of the asylum getting out of the car. Their mother did not attend the appointment because she felt ashamed of herself, and she didn't even dare to come to see them.

In extreme disappointment, Lizzy broke down and ran out. Ellie and Pete chased after him, their worried expressions blatantly. At this moment, they looked more like the children's biological parents.

Lizzy asked Ellie before why they adopted them. In the declaration that he didn’t have time to say in court, Ellie wrote that this was not an accidental choice, but a destiny. Lizzy and the others are like a gap in their life. When I found them, the gap was filled.

This should be the most romantic way that family affection can express. Just like Lizzy's tears when Ellie combed Lizzy's hair that morning, the two embraced gently, and finally the younger brother and sister inadvertently called out dad and mommy. The world is actually not complicated. Your love and sincerity will always be conveyed to the day. When the three children meet Ellie and Pete, how can they be filled with love and become complete again?

This story is adapted from a true story, which shows that there are still many people in the world who have found their relatives who are not related by blood but can never be separated in their lives.

If the original family is stronger than the adoptive family because of its non-selectivity, then the strong of the adoptive family lies in the hard-won share that is still unwilling to give up after all kinds of choices. It was the companionship that gave birth to the family relationship, and this family relationship became precious and extremely firm due to the various hardships experienced in the re-running.

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Instant Family quotes

  • Karen: You're going to get some funny looks and people are going to say some stupid shit., but if you're willing to love these kids who need a mom and dad and somebody has a problem with that, you just ask them how many goddamn kids they've adopted.

  • [Pete and Ellie mistakenly confront Charlie thinking he is Jacob]

    Ellie: It's that kid Jacob! Hey, I saw the picture you sent to her, Jacob.

    Pete: You're lucky I don't end your life right now, carrot top!

    Ellie: We're going to call your mom!

    Pete: You're going down today!

    Ellie: So what do you think of that, Jacob?

    Charlie: [sobbing] My name is not Jacob!

    Ellie: What?

    Charlie: It's Charlie!