When her mother left at her sister’s wedding, Kym chased her out and watched her mother leave in her current husband’s car. Her eyes said: "I'm sorry, but please love me still."
When there was a fight, After crashing into a car, Kym knocked on her sister's door with a swollen nose. The trouble-loving sister and the bridesmaid who was almost late did not dare to look directly at her sister's eyes, but when she raised her eyes anxiously, her eyes still said: "I'm sorry, but please love me still"
when Kym Packing up and preparing to return to the rehabilitation center, she looked through the glass door at the father who always swallowed the pain into his stomach and tried his best to protect the little daughter, and murmured involuntarily: Dad... The rest of the words are in her eyes: "I'm sorry, but please love me still"
This is Kym's way of loving her family, and her love is always apologetic. After the death of her brother, she could live with a sense of guilt, but she could never truly forgive herself. She was angry and even accused and quarreled for not being a bridesmaid, neglected, and alienated, but it was just a kind of fear - fear that her family would not love herself because of the mistakes she had made. While subconsciously believing that this is the most appropriate punishment for herself, she desperately resisted this punishment. So she is very sensitive to other people's eyes, always feel that others are judge her, in fact she is judge herself non-stop. A person who feels that he is worthless most hates others for evaluating him and always feels that others are evaluating her. What she fears most and does not have the confidence to stop her is the judge of others, and the conclusion that Judge concluded: she is not worthy of being loved. She desperately wants love but feels she doesn't deserve it. Her mouth hurts people and creates embarrassment, just like a child who deliberately causes trouble in order to get parents' attention. She has a hard mouth, but she doesn't lie in her eyes. She always involuntarily reveals her loneliness and desperate desire for love for her family.
The most beautiful thing about this movie is that it portrays the complexity of family relationships. Each of us has a mixture of love and hatred for our loved ones, but love is always more than hate, because hate also comes from the wounds brought about by love. We hate, just because hate keeps us at a safe distance from the one we love, so that when he or she does something that hurts our hearts, we will not be so disappointed and sad. However, when things come, when our loved ones make mistakes, no matter how hard we try, they will still leave scars that are hard to heal. So when we love them, we will also accumulate hatred in our hearts, which will burst into quarrels when the fuse is lit. But noisy, we love each other still. The weight of this still is so heavy that most people in this world are not too lonely.
Also because of this still, my mother put her hand on Kym's hand when her sister was cutting the wedding cake to express her forgiveness; the sister who was going to be the bride opened the door, took a hot bath for the crying sister, and allowed her to wear it. The dazzling gray bridesmaid's clothes; and my father is always the one who prefers the little girl and who cares about her work and life all the time without hard work. If it weren't for love, they wouldn't be hurt so deeply, or even hold a grudge. But if it's not love, they won't forgive and won't let this "still love" happen.
Love hurts yet love heals. Love has given us wounds, but it can make them heals. This kind of story happens between us and our loved ones every day, and this movie is just one piece.
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