Such questioning, if the person talking about it is righteous and strong, it sounds full of momentum. But, what I said, I only feel powerless and humble...
On the one hand, it’s because we have long realized that everyone is eager for self-fulfillment, so they are indifferent to the lives of others. In this case, there is no room to care for others. Words, of course, the psychological secrets hidden behind words will not be detected. Because of this kind of awareness, even if people are indifferently rejected, they just feel comfortable, there is nothing to complain about, but when people listen carefully, they feel like an unexpected gain, a typical young wife's mentality, huh···
On the other hand, as a man, although innate and others have differences in intelligence, appearance, and family background, I always think that the end of the acquired situation is due to my own efforts. So when I saw the poor person, my first reaction was, "The poor person must be hateful." 'If it is because of your own reasons that you have to live a life of snorting, then what right do you have to complain that others are too indifferent to yourself?
Therefore, people who just complain that others are not good enough, but do not reflect on themselves are always disgusted; people who rely on showing their pitifulness to gain sympathy are even more despised.
But for this down-and-coming man who abandoned the dignity of the samurai and threatened to have a cesarean section to survive, not only did he not hate him, but he did not even feel pitiful. He just felt respected...
Can't help but think of his father. He is not good at all. A man who does everything for his family, even if he is looked down upon or even laughed at by others, he still takes on the responsibility of being a father and husband, abandoning his dreams and principles, and sweating silently in the sun In my work, I don’t show any grievances and difficulties in front of my family...
Yes, many people in this world have a smooth life, and they can live very well without encountering any difficulties; but there are also many people who work hard to get But it's just a little bit. Except for system and social reasons, if you are in a difficult situation because of your own reasons, there is no reason to be sympathized, but you shouldn't be despised. Sometimes, they may live more dignified...
I just thought, when I am in a better position than others, can I be patient with others, because, as the old samurai said,'My today may be your tomorrow. 'We also always want to be listened to carefully...
This is very powerless to respond to requests under the guise of a round of returns, but I really want everyone to be gentle.
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