Become a major event

Abagail 2022-05-24 19:36:33

When I was in the first year of high school, the terrible geography teacher in Mandarin once looked at me in a self-study class.
I was sitting on the left side of the podium and the drinking fountain on the right. In the back, female students who are less than 1.5 meters tall and like TVXQ are immersed in homework. In order to get along with the 1.8-meter strong man in front, they have been trying to amend all TVXQ's various gossips and share all kinds of class gossip, in order to listen, be loved, and be angry with the same enemy.
That afternoon, the geography teacher looked at me with interest, and said for a long time, xc, you will surely achieve great things in the future.

Later, I spent ten years carefully studying the meaning of his sentence. And in these ten years, I understand that I should not be able to achieve a major event.

What is a major event.
When Brother Ji talked to me about a female classmate, she said that she was cruel and ruthless, and that she would definitely be the one who succeeded in the future.
I didn't hear the teasing in his words, but I felt more about complimenting her.
Throughout the ages, those who have made great things, who do not bear a bit of blood and deep hatred, crawl out of the dead, and then climb in again, calm and calm, and meticulous in mind, coupled with the wrists, understanding of communication, the enemy and us are easy to use, and the tears are wonderful. Love is also extremely deep.

Of course we have to mention moral sentiment and sportsmanship. Brother Ji probably thinks that the female classmate has already abandoned the bottom line of all principles and rushed towards a better tomorrow, which can become even more important. The so-called non-trivial, this is the case. Take a girl in a small county seat on the 18th line as an example. It has been extended to the past and present, but it has been small to see the big, and the whole thing can be seen in the tube.

But when does everyone think that a major event must be ruthless and ethical?
This can’t help but make my back feel a bit cold. I think of the series of success study books on the desk of my college roommate. Most of them are similar to thick black studies. Every time he smiles at me, I’m afraid I don’t know when he will give it a hand. The sharp knife was inserted into the enemy's heart. I don’t despise long-sleeved, good-looking, dark-faced friends, at least what they say most often is not, you see, although I treat others, I am sincere to you!

Everyone's perspective on success is of course very different. As a result, the means of achieving success are very different. I am indeed longing for a shining, artificial, worldly success. Let everyone be sincerely jealous of my achievements. I will always understand those super rich and celebrities who added fuel and jealousy when they mentioned their painful careers, and also quite disgusted. You know, success is not the most important thing, the most important thing is inner peace and quiet, let us become applause on the side of the road Renba, this kind of shit who doesn’t know what the hungry is hungry, speaks. I really lack money and career, brother!

I am also well aware of my shortcomings, such as slow response, occasional laziness, and lack of expression skills. In addition, as my friend said, "You are really the most unlucky person I have ever seen in my life". Indeed, I have a little luck. It's a bit so unsatisfactory. But like every ordinary person, I am fighting hard and don't complain about life, but most of the time I feel anxious and worried because of this. Longing for my success is a powerful straight punch, never bend the corner, and always go forward courageously. Just like the sword moves of T-Bone in the Pirate, he went straight and opened and closed, he only had a few lines in the whole Pirates, and the one that impressed me most was when he said to Sauron in the wind and rain, "I hate it. Curved knife!".

Where is the source of the problem.
I think it's still a word, stupid. It means that IQ is low, and there is no such thing as low EQ. For me, IQ is low, but IQ is actually low.
Most young people complained about the bad luck and unforeseen talents. Stupid is that you love to complain. If you have this time, you might as well study it carefully and polish it hard. Even if you use a little trick in the process, it slightly violates your principles and respect. No, it is very likely that you have been hypnotized in the process. For yourself, everything you do is correct. It is raining, grandpa is dying, and the house needs to be bought. You see how beautiful jamie is. If I don't have a chance, I will create an opportunity. I have a depressed expression all day long, and my eyes are full of me wanting to dedicate myself to my ideals, but the emotion of being a white lotus is really undesirable. Although Jamie's various behaviors are indeed disgusting to me, but the same sentence, the flower of success, you only admire her current beauty, who knows what he did in the past. Compared to most young people, jamie is scheming, but at least down to earth and working every step of the way, I have to say that he did a very good job. And if you have to say, unscrupulously, strive for success, this is something young people will do, I personally think it is a bit far-fetched.

So back to the film, what's interesting is that in our impression, young people are passionate, simple, straightforward, and yearning for purity, while adults should be scheming, perfunctory, and concealed. It was this kind of stereotype that caused Ben Stiller, who had a good face, to fall into the trap. I have to say a few words about the original. He always brings a pair of me working hard. I am a good guy. I rely on. Why am I so unlucky? Forget it. I am calm inside. I can reconcile with myself. I don’t know the world. expression. Although it is facial paralysis, he mainly engages in inner drama. You don't understand his world, and he doesn't blame you.

The recent movies are very popular in this kind of thick black success school, such as Nightcrawler, The Wolf of Wall Street. I am also very grateful for this movie, which can suddenly put a different understanding of success in front of me at the age of 25. I mean, I really think they are going to talk about a mid-life crisis.

Positive emotions are still necessary, and the way you look at the world should not be too easily influenced by others. I still pursue love and beauty. How could my pure white lotus be so easily ruined by you. I know not to lie, true temperament, and straight-forward success may be difficult, but I am still willing to give it a try, even if I become mediocre after middle age, only drinking and bragging at the wine table, and I slept all night at home with the TV on.

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While We're Young quotes

  • Darby: You know, me and Jamie, always wondered how are we gonna get old? And the answer is... just like everyone else.

  • Josh: It's weird, you know, I'm at that age where the things you think are only going to happen when you get older are actually happening.

    Jamie: If I'm going to be totally honest with myself, I don't think I'm ever going to die. I know that's crazy.

    Josh: It's crazy.

    Jamie: I think I'm pathologically happy.