Responsible for your choice

Adrienne 2021-12-24 08:02:22

First of all, I want to say, well, I like the heroes and heroines in the movie. Zoe looks so comfortable for me (actresses who make me feel comfortable are not too many, haha). Stan is also a handsome man, very Handsome, reminds me of the handsome and confused big guy in "Leap Year". . .

In fact, the plot of the story is really old-fashioned, and there is nothing new in the development of the story. I believe that many people will say "I don't believe it" after reading it, but for some reason, I feel very happy when I look at it, but it is full of joy. The warmth~~~Especially at the end, the two of them walked on the road together pushing the stroller, and there was a dog in front of them. I really felt that this scene was perfect and warm~~~ and those two extremely cute twin girls Baby, I really want to say "Why are foreign children so cute, ah, ah, can't stand it" ~~~

Zoe is a strong woman who doesn't trust men, because her family experience from a young age has turned her into a nonsense It is quite normal for a girl who trusts others to be extremely insecure and decides that it is impossible to meet the destined person and decides to give birth to a child by artificial insemination. I remember that I discussed this issue with Jiajia before, and felt that it was for a woman. In other words, if there is no destined lover and no happiness in the family, then having a child who is completely one's own and dependent on one another is also a kind of happiness. So, I fully understand Zoe's mood~~~

However, the world is really full of wonders. When everything is planned perfectly, an accident happened and that person appeared. All the plans have been disrupted~~~

In fact, even if Stan knows the truth and leaves Zoe, it is reasonable and reasonable, and I believe that 90% of people in real life will choose to do this. It is also understandable. The person I like is unconcerned and pregnant with someone else's child. I become a dad somehow, and I feel terrible in the future. OK, it is really understandable.

However, this kind of thing is what you want. As far as Zoe is concerned, whether there is Stan in her life or not, her plan to give birth will not change as a result. As far as Stan is concerned, no matter what choice she makes, she will be responsible and bear the consequences.

Zoe and Stan are completely equal, even if Zoe is pregnant with artificial insemination, I like Zoe's righteousness, but I don't like Zoe's suspicion. It's justified because Zoe didn't owe Stan anything. It was Stan's willingness. It was Stan's own decision to stay with Zoe. Making a decision meant accepting the child in Zoe's belly. But Zoe should be grateful to Stan, because the man who made this decision is a good man with a sense of responsibility (of course, it does not mean that if you give up Zoe, you will not be responsible). Zoe should trust and love this man, because he is worthy of love.

In fact, that's it, many things are that simple. There is no perfect balance in life, and sometimes it is necessary to choose one of the two. To make this decision, you must give up that choice. No matter which choice you make, as long as you clearly understand your behavior and are willing to take responsibility and responsibility for your behavior, you are OK~~ But

people are often greedy, wanting this and wanting that. I always hope that God prefers himself and can give more.

Anyway, I still like this movie because it makes me feel good. I also saw entanglements, contradictions, suspicions and many negative things. However, it is precisely because of these things that people have the opportunity to ask the inner self "what do you really want".

What Zoe really wants is to be with Stan, what Stan really wants is to be with Zoe. Then, as long as they can be together, they can give up and accept other things that are not the most important. . .

I believe that they will be happy together.

In fact, I still think, long live communication!

Many things will not die if you speak with your mouth. Expressing love and explaining misunderstandings are really important and important.

I always feel that foreign films can better reflect the purity of love. In their eyes, love is more than anything, more than sex, more than a house, car, and family background.

But now, where to find love?

I have no idea!

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The Back-up Plan quotes

  • Baby Store Sales Clerk: [Looking at baby strollers] It's a bit overwhelming huh?

    Stan: There are so many and they are so... big!

    Baby Store Sales Clerk: Well they have to be big, 2 babies right?

    Stan: Yeah but babies are small, these are for like giant mutant babies

    Baby Store Sales Clerk: Well you should see some of the babies that come in here, total fatasses

  • Playground Dad: It's awful, awful, awful. Then a small moment happens, that's so magical. That makes it all worthwhile.