Seeing that I burst into tears in the movie theater at the end, my friend was almost scared to death by me... It is estimated that no one in the entire theater would watch this movie and cry orz
Let’s not talk about the plot flow setting and shooting techniques of this film. I have no ability to judge this film from a professional point of view, because this film feels too deeply for me. It is entirely based on some of my own experiences that lead me to This movie has such a deep impression. What I said next basically has nothing to do with the movie, and it is estimated that no one wants to watch it...
I am also a person who has experienced bullying since I was a child. Seeing that the characters in the movie are treated unequally and being bullied, I can't avoid thinking of myself. I thought of all my previous experiences, and thought of myself who had thought about the past life because of unequal treatment. But the plot that really made me cry is not these, but when the female protagonist suddenly woke up and stood up to fight the injustice of the bullied, for the first time someone stood up for them and desperately prevented the crazy sister from rushing to the road. when. I was full of gratitude at the time, and I automatically brought into the role of the crazy sister. I was deeply involved in the drama... I thought of myself at that time if I also met such a person and told me that it was not you who was wrong, and you should not be treated like this. , There are still people in this world who recognize your value. I really want to open up a lot. I will be more confident about myself and I will no longer blame myself.
In the eyes of many ignorant children, the concept of the word "correct" is to reach agreement with other children. When a more popular child starts to bully an "inconsistent" person, there will be a second, a third, and then all children except the bullied start to bully this person. This behavior brings them a naive sense of superiority, and there will be no consequences.
But how can people who have never changed things know that what they are doing now has a lifetime impact on a person of their age.
This is really scary, because no one chooses to be bullied. Most of the time, some defects or differences that are unavoidable in birth or acquired are the root causes of bullying, but the impact is lifelong.
This is really unfair, isn't it?
I think poor people must have something to hate. This sentence is fart, we don't deserve this. Our defects or differences do not harm anyone, but those who cause harm to us are wrong.
For me, the experience of my adolescence is still affecting me. Let alone anxiety, depression, social phobia and panic attacks, the series of mental illnesses are torturing people. The most intuitive impact is that although there will no longer be a group of people bullying me blatantly, every time I enter a relationship, I will always Take the lead in putting yourself in an inferior position. This is really torture people, life has never been easy, because subconsciously afraid of being treated unequally, I always want to please people Communication is the focus of life.
What's more sad is that people who haven't experienced it will always feel that it's no big deal, it's that you are too fragile. The most frequently heard question is: Why not resist?
Imagine if you are alone in the face of a dozen or even dozens of unreasonable children in the entire school, what will be the effect of resistance?
It has no effect.
In most cases, it will even be treated as a new laughing stock by others.
When my parents learned that I was experiencing bullying, their approach was to tell me how wasteful and embarrassed I was. This has made it impossible for me to establish a close family relationship with them. I love them very much, I am grateful to them, but I will not choose to rely on them.
Time and time again, it seems that the wrong people are us.
Is this right? Should this be? Is this fair to us?
no way.
If you learn that your child is experiencing bullying, please tell him it is not his fault. Please protect him, tell him you love him, and let him know that you are his solid backing.
If your classmates are experiencing bullying, please do not join the ranks of the perpetrators. This is not cool at all. Please tell him it is not his fault, and let him know that not everyone treats him like this.
If you learn that your students are experiencing bullying, please educate your students and tell them how vicious it is. Please tell the bullied student that it is not his fault and you will support him.
If you are committing bullying or similar behavior to others, please stop and do not continue. Please be aware of the seriousness of the matter and don't be a murderer who will ruin others' lives.
If you are experiencing bullying, I want to help you. I hope you can understand that everything you have experienced is not because you did something wrong. It is the people who did this to you, not you, who should be punished. I really hope someone can stand up and help you through all this, you are not alone.
I hope everyone can live a relaxed and happy life, and hope that there is no bullying in this world. If anyone can see here, I wish you happiness every day :)
View more about Before I Fall reviews
