But I will talk about my understanding of this show in a way that is not a comedy (only for one family, I feel that the writing is too deep, but the movie is still good.)
Mani’s high school life has always been terrible, always being beautiful Bullied by the arrogant and arrogant girl, so she is always so bad, even very low self-esteem. When she grows up, she becomes 18 and becomes mature and confident.
But the crux of the problem is that his brother married a Joanna who always bullied others when she was in high school. Joanna still pretended not to know her. The most important thing is if Joanna didn’t meet Joanna’s ex-fiance at the wedding. Tim, would she tell her aunt about the so-called guilt? The most important thing is that if there is no video, Joanna would not be known by Mani’s brother about her high school life, and the picture is very clear, and Mani is also in the picture. , And it’s clear that Joanna was bullied. If Mani’s brother is not angry and sad, (even if Mani’s brother Will is angry and sad, Joanna has to make Mani apologize), Joanna will collapse and eat Butter biscuit realized that he was done with everything, and then cried and apologized to Mani?
I don’t think so. The most terrifying thing in this world is this. I have never lost it and I never know how to cherish it. Joanna has a lot of scenery in high school and has never been bullied. Mani has an inferiority complex and is always bullied by Joanna . This time Joanna really realized that she was wrong when she lost her fiance Will and couldn't resolve the marriage, and she apologized to Mani. This apology is too late, as Joanna said, "they would've been pround of me, if I would've apologized to you, the moument you walked through that door" , Took the initiative to apologize, that would be the real apology, but Joanna did not do it. Because she was not worried about whether Mani would forgive her, but worried about "I just didn't want Will or your parents to know how awful I was back them". Joanna was just worried that Will and his parents knew her. In the past, I didn’t want to apologize.
Joanna has changed. After all, she herself said that her parents had passed away. She was much better than before, and she was not as domineering as she was in high school. But did she feel guilty or apologetic for the behavior of her fiance Sister Will that she bullied in high school? No, he was just afraid of losing her fiancé. Joanna had a chance to apologize. When Mani and Joanna were in the dressing room, wasn't Joanna still so domineering. It's just that she uttered truth (or nonsense after drinking) of her ex-fiancé Tim's drunk, and she felt that her happy marriage was threatened, and she apologized, not because of guilt, if the videotape doesn't Broadcast, would Joanna apologize if Will had nothing to watch even if he watched the tape? I don't think so.
Why do people who make mistakes always forget what they have done, and always say "I thought we could start over, but no, you were so completely stck in the past, that you just couldn't let go , could you?" I want to start again, but you are too entangled in the past. You can't make things past once. To put it simply, I won’t apologize to you. I don’t remember exactly how I bullied in high school. You, but you still remember. You're too petty. How open it is to say!
But Mani’s high school life was all living in low self-esteem. If she hadn’t become beautiful and confident, she might still be living in the shadow of low self-esteem. All she wanted was "a real apology" that was what she should do. Yes, but Joanna had no regrets or guilt at all, and she apologized. She only felt that she should repent and apologize because the good life of her marriage was ruined.
If I were Mani, I would just say it was late. What are you doing? Your fiance ran away, so you came to apologize!
All of this is your own cause.
But this is a comedy after all. The fiancé is Mani’s elder brother, so he can’t watch this movie with a petty and hard-hearted thought. After all, when is the time for retribution, Mani still hated him at first, but Joanna Mani still forgave her, after all, it was a comedy. How did you "bad girl" in high school, how to bully my sister, how to bully my daughter, how to bully my granddaughter, but because you Joanna said sorry , My sister also forgave you, we are reunited as a family.
Comedy is a comedy after all, but this is also a truth in life. It tells us that these bullies, we can't forget the pain, but the bully may not remember that they bullied you, even if you can meet him, he might laugh half-jokingly. He said, "I don't remember, what happened when you were young, you are too hard-hearted, how can you still worry about it." What can you do, what is the use of what you do, he doesn't remember it anymore, the most important thing The thing is, the bullied person must also learn to forget and forgive, even if he may not apologize or apologize in good faith, because people cannot live in the shadow of pain, and looking at the problem with hatred cannot solve the problem. Why! I can only blame the heavens and the others, who made you such a nerd at the time, and didn't bully you. So it's optimistic, it's okay to be more Aq.
I really like what Higashiro said: "The Chinese repayed me with virtue and forgive me against the unshakable enemy, the Japanese army. I want to thank and be grateful." Let’s talk about history! After all, the person who bullied you hasn't been so unconvinced by the Japanese, so he won't admit it.
There is nothing to forgive. The mistakes others have committed to oneself have already happened, but the one who is sad is always oneself. Only by forgiving oneself and forgiving others can one forgive oneself and let go of the pain others have caused to oneself.
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