Brothers take a warning.
Originally, the teacher's request was "turn in the feelings of "Fatal ID", and if you have enough time to learn, you can read "Super-Large Beauty"", because my ears leaked, I heard "turn in the feelings of "Super-Large Beauty"". Therefore, in combination with the "Intimate Relationship" (Fifth Edition) that I have been watching recently, there is this little sharing.
When picking up the shoes, I told the clerk that it would be 7 yards, and then sneakily whispered that it would be 9 and a half yards. I would lose weight, learn to braid my hair online, and try to make myself more beautiful. Riding. In an accident on a spinning bike, the pain was so painful that the walking posture was deformed and he pretended to be nonchalant; he didn't even wash and dressed up and didn't even dare to send documents to the head office. The heroine Renee is such a fat and cute girl who cares about others' opinions.
Because she was overweight and lacking self-confidence, she bought clothes offline and was told that there was no suitable size for her; greeted the children, but they cried with a nervous hi; took pictures with old friends and posted them on the homepage of the dating site. In the photo, the posture is restrained and compact; he takes off his clothes and looks at his body, his eyes are sad and sad.
Most people like themselves, and some people don't like themselves. Evaluation of oneself constitutes self-esteem. If you have a positive evaluation of your own skills and traits, your self-esteem level is high; if you doubt yourself, your self-esteem level is low.
Self-esteem is a "social relationship meter" that measures the quality of our relationships with others. If others like us, we like ourselves; if others treat us positively and value the relationship with us, the level of self-esteem is high. However, if we cannot attract others—if others don’t seem to care whether we are part of their lives—the level of self-esteem is low. According to social measurement theory, self-esteem operates in this way because it satisfies the evolutionary mechanism of our belonging needs.
The unflattering appearance has brought a lot of troubles to her life that hurts her self-esteem. The desire to be beautiful is so strong that she even hopes to pray to the sculpture in the rain to make her dream come true, naive but sad. The coin of the wish was thrown into the sky, but it turned out to be business as usual.
Recognizing the reality, she stepped into the spinning room again, tightened the screws and seat, and rode harder, but because of too much force, she broke the pedal, and her head was hit hard by the floor. Alas, I didn't expect that such a cute girl, the script made such a joke to her.
What's more unexpected is that the director made a joke to the audience-the heroine actually has a dream come true... the clown is actually myself! After becoming thin and beautiful, the heroine's life status has undergone earth-shaking changes. In her vision, she is as beautiful as a young lady who is fashionable and has a supermodel temperament. The old gentleman at the door of the coffee shop opened the door for the beautiful girl and the construction site. The eldest brother who went on will blow her a rogue whistle. He once didn't dare to apply for a position because he was not confident about his appearance. Now he also raised his head and strutting his head to submit his resume. It's such an extraordinary self-confidence.
When she told the miracle of two old friends, by observing the calm reaction of the old friends, I actually had a bad premonition: It is estimated that the heroine really broke her brain and had the illusion of losing weight.
In the laundromat, she was confident that she mistakenly thought that the beard brother asked her for a phone number (a self-fulfilling prophecy) and produced a series of dramatic responses; for personal homepages that did not have a click-through rate on the dating site, she thought she had cringed before. She dragged herself back. As long as she took a new photo, she would win the favor of many netizens. In response to the interviewer’s rejection, she was confident and did not panic. She gave a heartwarming response and finally won her favorite post; She was glamorous in the bikini competition. On the beautiful stage, the audience slapped their palms and screamed their throats. Her self-confidence gradually fascinated Brother Beard.
The trend of the plot, precisely through the form of controlled variables, compares the state before and after the illusion of the same object, which strongly proves to the audience that a beautiful appearance can make people confident, and self-confidence can fill life with colorful colors. As long as it proves that "confidence does not have to be achieved with a beautiful appearance", the theme will be sublimated. Too hurt, which means that the illusion of her addiction will be broken and return to reality again.
Sure enough, she who knocked her head in the bathroom unexpectedly cured her illusion: she no longer had the face of an angel and the figure of a devil in the mirror. She couldn't accept this kind of self, she was afraid that she would no longer be loved by everyone, and she would be rejected by everyone as before.
People with low self-esteem underestimate their partner's love for them, thus damaging intimacy. It is difficult for them to believe that their partner loves themselves deeply. As a result, they are often not optimistic about the sustainability of love. This in turn makes them overreact to the occasional bad emotions of their partner; they will feel more rejection and experience more harm than those with high self-esteem. These painful emotions make it more difficult for them to act constructively to deal with the imaginary danger. When there are setbacks in intimacy, people with high self-esteem can narrow the distance with their partners and work hard to repair the intimacy, while people with low self-esteem isolate themselves defensively, sulking, messing around, and feel that they are more Oops.
In fact, everyone has always liked her who "thinks she is beautiful and confident".
Beard brother: "They only value their own shortcomings, and completely ignore the advantages that really show their outstanding side."
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