What you think you are the real you

Kimberly 2021-12-27 08:02:01

I watched this movie while recovering from eating disorder caused by body anxiety. After watching it, there is a detail that I will not forget for a long time, and I must write it down today.

After the heroine accidentally fell and knocked her head, she suddenly discovered that she had "become" a beautiful woman with a "good figure". She took a sharp shot in the mirror and felt that her hands and feet were so perfect. The people in here said, did you see it? I am gorgeous! My old lady is blown up! A black line under the forehead of someone else? ? ...

The movie here does not show a beautiful beauty in the mirror. What she sees is still the original figure, or a woman who needs to wear XL. But what has changed? It was her mind's perception of her figure that had changed.

If a friend knows about eating disorders, they may know that eating disorders involve distorted perceptions of body shape. A patient with severe myopia may be skinny and still think that he is fat and still want to be thinner. Therefore, in the diagnosis of eating disorders, this distorted cognition leads to continuous dissatisfaction with one's own weight and appearance, making it difficult for patients to recover. To fully recover, it is necessary to correct the difference between the self seen by the naked eye and the self seen by the "psychological", and achieve the unity of the two.

The heroine hasn't become thinner or beautiful from beginning to end. In fact, she has always been good at dressing, she has always been beautiful. In her mind, she "becomes" a beauty only because her brain identifies with herself, and she thinks she is beautiful, so she has nothing to lose.

Just as the male and female protagonists in the film told her at a picnic, you have a charm that is different from ordinary people, because others are entangled in their imperfections, but you don't.

Being thin is not necessarily healthy, and being fat is not necessarily lazy. You don't need to be thin to become beautiful, and you don't need to be beautiful to identify with yourself. As long as you think you are beautiful and you think you are valuable, then you are beautiful and valuable.

Even if there are bugs in plot design and logic, this is still a good movie in my mind. Besides, it's really funny~

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  • Casimer 2021-12-27 08:02:01

    It should be regarded as a well-deserved chick movie. After laughing, add a piece of chicken soup. The confident person is the most beautiful. When I watch it, I think if the first person for the domestic remake should be Xie Yilin.

  • Alvina 2022-04-23 07:03:18

    Popcorn movie, no sense.

I Feel Pretty quotes

  • Renee Bennett: You could see me that whole time?

    Ethan: Renee, I've always seen you.

  • Renee Bennett: I thought that was going to bust easier. Umm... Hello. My name is Renee. And, uh, some of you know me as this woman. Glamourous. Flawless. Perfection. But that's not the real me. This is the real me. I know. These women look nothing alike. But they're both me. Take a second to process it. But in this industry I only felt wanted when I looked like this. Now when I looked...

    Renee Bennett: Wha... There's no magic. That's me. That's me, they're both me. That's me. I did all this as me.

    Renee Bennett: When we're little girls... we have all the confidence in the world. We-we let our bellies hang out. And... and we just dance and play and pick our wedgies. And then these things happen that just, they just make us question ourselves. Somebody says something mean to you on the playground and then we grow up. And you doubt yourself over and over again until you lose all that confidence. All that self-esteem, all the faith you started with is gone. But what if we didn't let those moments get to us? What if we were stronger than that? Right? What if we didn't care about how we looked? Or how we sounded? What if we never lost that little-girl confidence? What if when someone tells us that we aren't good or thin or pretty enough we have the strength and the wisdom... to say what I am is better than all that. Because what I am is me! I'm me! And I'm proud to be me! And if you ever get the chance to hang out with me or my friends. My amazing, perfect friends. Well, all I have to say to you is you're welcome.

    Renee Bennett: Mason, hit it. We are real women. We are. What a great thing to be. A real, healthy, just strong, funny kickass chick! This new line of products won't change your life. Only you can do that. And you can do that. Believe me. But this line is for every girl who is ready to believe in herself! You are beautiful! You are everything! And you are the real face of this line! And we are all the face of Lily LeClaire!