For children who are ignorant and ignorant, at least his parents play a big role in the driving force of the beginning of growth. Those who are similar to the violin that crawls to the ground before they learn to walk, they just pick it up and play it indiscriminately to reveal the story of talent. Most of them, children are full of unpredictable curiosity, he may also be interested in playing with a grenade on the ground, but you can't just train him as the king of weapons. And David's father used to have musical feelings, but failed to achieve his wish for various reasons, so this unforgettable plot became his pain and hope. Adults often want to realize their unfulfilled desires in their children, so we see that the children of this Jew who had gone through concentration camps can play the piano, and David is the object of his efforts to shape, at the same time he does not care about it. He became the object of his vigorous destruction. David has lived under the shadow of patriarchy for a long time. His father is harsh, cold, arrogant, and arrogant, and he has a strong desire to control David. Therefore, in his heart, he believes that he is the only one who really cares about David and can dominate David’s destiny. When David has the opportunity to go abroad to study, he obstructs him in every possible way because he can’t let David get rid of him. Control, because he can't bear the loss of being unable to control his son. Like many parents who inadvertently hurt their children, he always puts on a posture of "I am for your good." Children who should have been sunny become sensitive and cringe.
The film also explained the "reasonability" that his father had become a bit tyrannical. As a Jew, he had suffered from World War II, so he believed extremely in the law of the jungle and believed that the strong could survive. Although not so deep, many adults have similar situations. For example, because they didn’t have the opportunity to go to college in the past, they put great hopes on their children. For this reason, parents can save money and create for their children. Good learning environment. Of course, this is a kind of self-sacrifice, but at the same time for the children, it is also somewhat of a sacrifice for oneself to realize the dream through the children, and to express the bird's breath. David's father is more extreme, and David's experience is even more tragic. His world is only music, not the tension music that many musicians penetrate life, but painful, devastating mechanical music. David’s father only cared about the improvement of his son’s skills, but he forgot that music without interpersonal communication was pale. I remember that in the documentary "From Mao Zedong to Mozart" when the violin master visited the newly opened China, he helped many children in the art at the time. But he also pointed out that the children lacked enthusiasm and true love for music. David's father was short-sighted and eager to prove himself through his son's achievements, which finally led to his son's resistance. The awakening of David's personal consciousness started from rebelling against patriarchy, and finally, with the pain of being expelled from the house, he came to England and began a new chapter in his life. However, the damage was so heavy, the shadow of "Rasan" left by his father was lingering, and the evil results were still caused by inertia. He played the most difficult piano music, but fell, stupid, crazy. Now, the once musical prodigy is silent.
However, David’s madness is actually a time of "retreat as progress" in the true meaning of music. Look at the crazy David, he finally no longer has to think about the difficulty of skills, he is like a child who is the least sensible. The stage is naughty, because he has never experienced such a stage, his childhood was prematurely shaped rudely, he was "make up lessons" to make up for the presumptuous childhood. Thanks to so many kind people, they are not as elegant as the people in the concert hall, but they really let David relax into life. Life is higher than those major and minor keys. Only life can make the silent sheet beat on the sheet music. David felt life and love, and at the same time, he really felt the music. It is difficult for him and his father to hug each other tightly. They can only see each other in a hurry, and with the death of his father, they lose the last contact. David’s comeback is so exciting, and he is still very urinary. He does not have the elegance of elegant music, but he is no longer nervous, no longer cringe, he plays openly, facing thunderous applause, he smiles like a child. , Finally wept, how sad and sentiment that tears carried. As he said at the end, "Life has to go on, right?", he has already answered himself, and he continues his wonderful story.
David finally experienced setbacks after his unfortunate childhood, and had a fairly good turnaround. Now how many children are under the trust of their parents to "I am for your good" to carry out training in various fields on the road to masters. I think there are very few masters in any field, so children don’t have to feel frustrated if they can’t become masters. What really needs to be noticed is that if children do not become masters, they have lost their childhood, their vitality and perception of life. , Then looking at the growing up child at a loss, perhaps with a resentful eye, that is the biggest frustration as a parent. Therefore, today’s parents and future parents need to look at their children’s eyes and listen. Listen to the child's heart, stop what should be stopped, let him rest and feel some happiness, this may be the most beautiful renunciation in his life.
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