The film tells a love story that looks very dreamy. Why is it dreamy? It's all because of the character setting of the movie "Wonderful Flower". The male protagonist Tae-Sok is an idle wanderer who rides a motorcycle around the cities all day long. One of his favorite things is to find those uninhabited empty rooms in the city and sneak in to live for a while. Then, as if he was at his own home, he ate and slept leisurely, and took a group photo with the owner's photo. However, Tai Shi is more disciplined, never taking other people's things, and will help others to clean up the house, wash clothes, repair furniture...
In this way, he "visited" family after family. Until one day, he walked into a big family and met the bruised heroine Sunhwa. No one cared about her, she could only curl up in a corner alone, silently suffering from both body and mind. To Tae-seok, it's just an empty room, but to Sunhwa, isn't it? Although she has a home, there is no one to accompany her, so what is the difference between this and an empty house. Frankly speaking, both people desire the warmth of the family in their hearts, but they use different methods-one is looking for, the other is waiting.
Just when the audience thought something would happen to this lonely couple, Seonhwa's husband returned. As usual, the husband greeted Shan Hua with bad words as soon as he came back. Ironically, he compares himself to a slave, as if everything was Shan Hua's fault. In just a few words, this husband's unreasonable and controlling character was portrayed vividly.
But like all perpetrators, after a brief period of calm, the husband began to confess. I'm wrong? I love you? These words came out of the husband's mouth as if they were conditioned reflexes. Why do all domestic abusers like to make this kind of "schizophrenic" behavior after the fact?
Because of guilt? seems like it. But this guilt is only aimed at the violence of the last time. As for the next time, let's wait for the next time. It is this kind of natural "robber logic" that nourishes the "evil" in these people's hearts.
Their behavior will not stop because of these confessions, but will intensify. Therefore, we often say: There are only zero and countless domestic violence. But, is there no other way? Yes, but it takes courage. This courage may be given to you by others, or it may be your own awakening.
In the movie, Tae Seok gave Sunhwa such courage. After he taught the husband a meal, he took Shan Hua to "experience life". Walking from a stranger's house to another stranger's house, Shanhua feels freedom and happiness that she has never had before. During this dream journey, the two people had no words, but the tacit understanding in their eyes seemed to have known each other for a thousand years.
At the end of the film, when Sun Hwa returned to that cold home, facing her husband's violence as always, she finally stopped being silent and chose to fight back.
However, in reality, there is often no "intruder" like Tae-shik, who descends from the sky and helps the victims out of the sea of suffering. More often than not, the victims have been intolerable before they make their experiences public and seek legal and social help.
In fact, once the victim's attitude becomes tough, the seemingly vicious perpetrators are actually not as scary as they thought. It can even be said that their hearts are more inferior than ordinary people. They couldn't get psychological satisfaction from the outside world, so they had to vent their grievances on the people closest to them. Therefore, when the victim finds this sign, the [clear attitude] is particularly important. The [attitude] mentioned here is not only the attitude of the person concerned, but also the attitude of the surrounding relatives and friends and the society as a whole. Although equality between men and women has become the consensus of everyone, how many people have actually achieved it in action?
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