This is A-Gump, this is his love, and this is his Jenny.
We recalled the first scene. A-Gump was in Jenny's dormitory. Jenny asked him what kind of person he would become in the future. A-Gump was stunned and said: Don’t I be myself? Jenny said she wanted to be a singer and become famous, but A-Gump still didn't understand, saying that he just wanted to be himself.
I was deeply moved by this scene, because even though A-Gump is a fool, he understands what he really needs. Become famous, make money, and become a successful person. These are not important. The important thing is that we must be ourselves. Why do we deserve the respect of others? Is it because of our profession? status? Or family property? If so, the person himself will become an accessory to these titles. I should be me, and I just want to be me. For A-Gump, he just wants to be himself and only wants to love a woman called Jenny.
In the scene in Washington, Jenny asked A-Gump why he was so good to her. A man with a little bit of a soft-shelled turtle would take Jenny's hand and say affectionately because I love you. A-Gump is not. He put on the idiot expression like the sign and said to this Jenny: you are my girl (because you are my girl).
Why not I love you? Why don't i love you? Because I love you no longer need to say more, if I love you, and you don’t love me, then this is unbearable for me, I may find another woman to love, but because you are my girl, so I I can endure your betrayal, your escape, I can also endure loneliness, endure the days without you, the important thing is not just that I love you, but because I know from the moment I see you that you are mine Girl, you are my girl.
If someone thinks about this sentence carefully and looks at A-Gump’s simple face and eyes, he can understand what it means to love someone, what it means to like someone, what it means to know someone, and what it means to give up a person. .
I often encounter this kind of thing, men and women in love, no matter what they are in love for, no matter how much they give, the party who pays more often complains, saying that they have paid too much, or paid little in return. So the third voice will tell you: Don't take a man (woman) too seriously, the more you take him (her) seriously, the less he (she) will take you seriously.
In my opinion, these are cowardly people, stupid people, because you are not actually in love at all. You are only intoxicated under the title of love, but you reveal your real deficiencies when you pay back.
Because love is inherently a luxury, you can't find love because of loneliness, you can't find love because of poverty, just like you can't sleep with others because you are a virgin (virgin). The value of love is when your life is already very rich, suddenly you want to find someone to share all of this, when you are originally happy, love will make you happier.
So at this time, you don't need to get anything from the other person. All you have is the desire to give. This is love.
There is no bondage, no request for return, and can withstand his (her) betrayal and escape while loving each other. This is true love.
It is easy to love someone, but it is very difficult to endure the so-called pain like Forrest Gump, because these are not love, but more like proof of self-worth.
That fool of South Alabama, Forrest Gump, eventually married Jenny and gave birth to a little Forrest Gump. They live happily together. At the end of the film, when A-Gump stood in front of Jenny's grave, he said in the accent of South Alabama: I love you Jenny. This is the reason why tears flicker in our eyes, not because this fool finally married Jenny, but because this fool has many feelings that smart people don't have: love. And those smart people who think they have love don't actually get love, and don't know what love is.
In this way, A-Gump is not a fool, at least not an ordinary fool.
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