Believe in love, when we are no longer young

Joelle 2021-10-18 09:29:13

The movie is over. You patted me on the back like a mother holding a baby, and asked me why the person who always likes to interrupt other people’s tears when the movie is sensational, and analyzes the director’s technique with a seemingly sensible expression, is so simple. And cried like this before the ordinary story.

I didn't dare to answer, I just asked you: If you were Mary, would you love George Bailey who had nothing?
You paused, then calmly told me: I love you, I know what you mean
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tragic idealists, not its often can not fight the reality of small, but since that can rely on a pious The heart is cultivated into a righteous fruit, and even in the darkest time of life, he still dreams of meeting the angel of salvation like George Bailey.
It's just George Bailey, who failed to realize his ideals in his entire life. That dreamlike and beautiful ending is the crowning of great humanity, not the redemption of spiritual seeking. From the moment he jumped into the ice water and frostbited his left ear in order to save his lost brother, George Bailey's life has been defined as a responsibility.

Giving up school and inheriting his father's business was the first fetter that the responsibility brought to George, but George naively believed that when his brother returned home, he could put on his wings and fly high. And 4 years later, when the same scene reappeared, the nature of responsibility once again prompted George to pave the way for the happiness of others, and choked his own sorrow in his throat.
"I want to traval around the world..." The boldness and freedom of youth can only be the light of the shadows of the trees on the Mississippi River. George understands that this kind of distress is not enough for outsiders. He even no longer expects to know, because knowing is not helpful for curing the status quo. However, listening to his former alumni talk about the colorful college life, he will feel a little bit sad; watching Sam, who was once inferior to his own, spends time and drinks while flirting with his beloved woman, but he can only feel inferior when he is heartbroken. And forbearance. There are tens of thousands of standards to measure happiness, but the material foundation

is always changing ... Whenever our life is at a low ebb, we always ask ourselves first: If I am not doing what I want to do, I am now Wouldn't it be very rich, at least with my ingenuity to be able to live without worry? Or maybe it wasn’t because of family, friendship, or love. Did I leave this bad circle a long time ago and can do what I want to do all my heart...
Perhaps every 20-year-old, kind, thoughtful boy used to be George Bailey only realized that he wanted to be Sam after his ideal collapsed, the girl was blocked, and he came to the conclusion that he must be ashamed of himself through comparison. So, after a few years, we can only say what we heard back then to the little fool who came in front of us with an innocent look, seeking the true meaning of life.
——Child, the old man was also young once.

This is far from the realm of George Bailey.

Some people think that George Bailey’s greatest luck is to have Mary’s love and support, but before flipping his fingers, he will be able to rise up and stay away from the temptation of poverty that brings infinite trouble to him. He would rather choose the guilt of his family and continue to be humane and righteous in his heart. Persevere, for any man with a strong sense of responsibility, this is what kind of dignity needs to be given up to do! This is a kind of love that can be tolerated by understanding and trust! I believe that there will be girls after watching After this movie, they will miss George Bailey in their lives. Maybe it’s because you’re not sure about happiness and let you finally leave the boy who vowed to take care of you for the rest of your life, but do you understand that in their hearts, you will be thousands of times more important than all honor and disgrace...
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Dear plone, in fact, I just want you to know that in order to be with you, I have never regretted any of my choices, not at all...

Today, Nanjing, the rain just stopped, the wind is very light, I am fine, I just want to you.

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It's a Wonderful Life quotes

  • Pa Bailey: Of course it's just a hope, you wouldn't consider coming back to the Building & Loan would you?

    George Bailey: Well I...

    [notices Annie eavesdropping]

    George Bailey: Annie, why don't you draw up a chair and then you'll be more comfortable and then you can hear everything that's going on?

    Annie: I would if I thought I'd hear anything worth listening to.

  • George Bailey: How old are you anyway?

    Mary: 18.

    George Bailey: 18! Why it was only last year you were 17.