It is said that after watching "King Kong" girls, after they walked out of the theater, they all disliked the boyfriends around them. Of course, it's not that his figure is not majestic enough, his body hair is not thick enough, and his nostrils are not big enough. They think that this love saint is too romantic. At the critical moment of life and death when it is hunted down by the sea, land and air forces, it is still thinking about taking his girlfriend to the Empire State Building to watch the sunrise. The fat man in the movie was wrong, not that the beauty killed the beast, but the romance. King Kong is so romantic that all men in the world are beyond the reach. We must learn from King Kong and regain women's hearts. Of course, everyone needs to learn more than just taking her to watch the sunset. What we are worth learning from is the persevering spirit of King Kong-everything must pay attention to the sense of ritual. As the philosopher Sartre said, there are two ways to get a sense of ritual: performance and fetishism. Please allow me to interpret it according to my own understanding. The so-called performance means that no matter what you do, you have to imagine that there is a camera behind you. If you fall in love with this kind of imagination, you will definitely succeed. King Kong knew this clearly. A wild beast and a beautiful woman watched the sunrise and sunset side by side. What a frightening scene. Therefore, it did. While the viewers are dumbfounded, the parties are even more unforgettable. This shows the necessity of the performance mentality. Needless to say, being in love is making love. If you think of yourself as an A movie actor, you will be more serious and will never scribble; the so-called fetishism is the rational use of props. King Kong successfully made the setting sun serve as the beautiful scene of this emotional drama, brewing an invincible dream atmosphere, making women fascinated, and calling for beauty. I have some personal experience of this. Once upon a time, there was a girlfriend, and she told me: There is a place on Xiaoyu Mountain in Qingdao that is the most beautiful to see the sunset, and other places cannot be compared. She is a person with a sense of ritual. Falling in love with her is very troublesome, but I have to admit that after breaking up, she left me more memories-in the context of rich ritual, those sweet moments are in the dust of memories, like in a pile of fish-eye beads Pearls are shining brightly. I think that the boring life at the moment is because of being too lazy and getting rid of the sense of ritual. Once, when I was living alone in a foreign land, I fell to the point where I could not even stack the quilt. My excuse was that it would always be unfolded anyway, so why bother to go upside down—in fact, folding the quilt is the most basic kind. The ritual, it embodies the respect for Dream God. During those days, on that messy bed, I always had insomnia. The consequence of breaking the sense of ritual is that my life has become a mess, without order and organization, trapped in the daily trivial mess, like crawling with ants. . Love especially needs a sense of ritual, you can't be lazy, you can't omit it. Once, she asked me to fold the quilt upright every morning; she took me to search the whole city, looking for the most beautiful place to see the sunset; when the thunder and lightning flashed, she dragged me into the rain and threw it away Umbrellas, long kisses in the rain, lightning illuminates happiness, and casts its brilliance to future life. I used to think that a perfect man should have "three senses": sexiness, sense of humor, and sense of responsibility. After watching "King Kong", one more thing must be added: a sense of ritual. At this point, I think of the "Titanic" N years ago. The classic fragment is: Jack takes Ruth to the bow, the two open their arms, stand against the wind, and feel ecstatic. My dear, what a ritual scene is that.
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