We have the right not to reconcile with ourselves, so it’s better to stop now

Haylie 2021-12-29 08:01:48

Unlike normal maternal love educational films, "Tali" superficially describes the various mental pressures of a mother after Imchen, but it is actually a story of saying goodbye to the past self. In order to better play the role of pregnant women, Charlize Theron deliberately added 40 pounds of meat to herself. Although there is a "learning from the past" of professional actors like Christian Bale. Whenever we see such professional actors of this type, we still can't help but sigh: "Ah, these actors are really dedicated."

When talking about what makes her happy most, Theron replied without hesitation: "My child." Both of her children were adopted, and Theron also poured his love to these two children. superior. Interestingly, it's the same as the heroine in the movie. Theron outside the play also revealed that he hadn't hired a nanny for two months, "I really want to die." When talking about raising children, Theron replied exactly like Marlow in the movie.

Theron’s cultivation of her own children made me even more gratified. She never raised her children as children but treated them as independent individuals. Let them have the courage to express their opinions. And this is what I think many parents should do, listen to the inner voice of the child.

We like to remember the past, just like the heroine Marlowe in it. I like to walk through the neighborhoods I once liked and drink the wine I like to drink. A large part of this is largely due to the unsatisfactory life of the current oneself. It's as if we like to miss school life and the carefreeness of childhood. Si believes that when we were young, after all, we had fewer rights and at the same time needed to bear fewer responsibilities. Parents worry about everything for us, so we don't seem to worry about it. When we grow up, we have more rights to choose love and career freely, but at the same time we have to take on more obligations and be responsible for our future. But sometimes when it's our turn to make our own choices, we feel a little hesitant, hesitant, and hopeful. This may be the reason why we are not happy now.

The process of Marlowe and Tully getting along is also a self-dissection of Marlowe. In this way, the connection between the past and the present makes the image of our heroine stand up. The image of her husband is not obvious, but since he is not the central figure in the movie, there is no need to dig further. Just make the icing on the cake/add oil and vinegar at the right time.

Tully is more like Marlowe's inner self: kind and enthusiastic. Marlowe is Tully trapped by reality: depression and sadness. Tully's invasion is also the process of reconciliation and goodbye between Marlowe and his past self. "Manchester by the Sea" says that we have the right not to reconcile with our past selves. In short, many things depend on themselves. The obsession of the past may increase some courage to face it with her husband, but it still has to be done by oneself.

At this time, I remembered the old line again: Everyone can only walk with you for a while, and people always have to be separated. There are some roads that you always need to walk by yourself.

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Extended Reading
  • Lilla 2022-03-26 09:01:09

    People who mark comedy should have a hole in their head

  • Fernando 2021-12-29 08:01:48

    Some people always say, "Why didn't Chinese women have so many things in those days", but that's not it, there was no concept of human beings in that era.

Tully quotes

  • Jonah: Love you, mom.

    Marlo: Love you, too, buddy.

  • Marlo: [Sarcastically] I want to kill myself.

    Sarah: What?

    Drew: No, mommy's just joking, honey. Like a clown.

    Marlo: [Mime-honks her nose] Honk!