Are you ready to be a mom

Kareem 2021-12-29 08:01:48

It feels very meaningful to watch this movie on the occasion of Mother's Day. If you feel warm after watching the movie, and hopeful for the future, then congratulations, you are ready to be a mother. It seems that being a mother in the United States is more difficult than being a mother in China. Most of the children are brought by themselves, and the maternity leave will not last long. If you want to give birth to your child, you can go to a nursery school starting at more than one thousand dollars a month. The American daily conversation habit is to try to pretend to be as good as possible. Even if you live like sh*t this day, you have to answer with a rising tone and say that you are not too good. If your real life experience is too different from your apparent performance, you will be prone to schizophrenia and hysteria. The hostess started to wear red eye circles and looked overly tired. It looked like a lot of my female colleagues who have a baby at work.

When the final mystery was revealed, it suddenly became clear that many of the strange plots in the front suddenly made sense. When my daughter washes her mother’s hair (I think it’s super cute!), she said why she put on makeup. I’m surprised that Theron still has a face like monster high Draculaura (look at the second woman who draws two big thick eyeliners ). The daughter also said that sometimes her mother is not like herself. And every time Tully asks questions from the soul, no one knows herself better than herself, and subconsciously still likes to trust herself the most. When Tully uniformed and seduced Theron's husband (this is the uniform of 2broke girls) Theron's smile on the face of the old mother felt very weird. In fact, the truth turned out that it was Theron himself who seduced her husband. At the end of the film, Theron was hospitalized in a car accident. When her husband went to the front desk of the hospital to register insurance information, her husband told the older brother Theron puzzledly that since she hired a night nanny for help, she looked very good, how could she be exhausted... His brother wanted to say something. With a solemn expression again, the nurse asked Theron's surname, and her husband answered casually, Tully, all the truth came to light. The next omitted scene will tell him that Theron had never contacted the night nanny he had hired for help, and that the only person who had been taking care of Theron was her splintered twenty-something herself. It can also be seen that my husband’s dereliction of duty. I never went downstairs to see the children at night for such a long time. I wear noise-proof headphones to play games. I sleep at night like a dead pig. I don’t even know how to care about crying babies. I don’t know how Theron stays up all night. Take care of children. I didn’t find Tully at all. It doesn't exist from beginning to end. I also told the nurse that I didn't understand why Theron would leave the child at home alone, and the nurse asked, "Aren't you at home?" He was speechless. Theron dragged his exhausted body upstairs every night to see her husband playing games indifferent to the children, not angry (if I had yelled at my husband earlier) or tired but full of love in his eyes. This scene was performed twice. Theron told Tully that he loved her husband very much and that he worked hard every day at work. It also explained that Theron was willing to bear everything by himself because of his love for her husband and children. As a professional woman (hr), she is only on maternity leave, and she is not dependent on her husband (not to say that the husband of a full-time housewife does not need to help). Why do you work every day, play games with your baby, send your baby to school, take the baby to do housework? All meals are the responsibility of women? Physiological structure determines that women are born to take more responsibilities. My mother said that you became a cow right after giving birth, and you have to take your calf or breast pump wherever you go, otherwise the milk will rise and it will be very painful. This is what I learned after watching this movie and discussing it with my mother. As a childless professional woman, I feel that it is actually very happy to work. Even if I work overtime until late at night, I feel that I am saving the world and making a lot of money. The challenges at work are super fun and you have a sense of accomplishment after you finish it (maybe this is a characteristic of Capricorns). After work, you can lie down and watch TV or hang out with friends to get fit. You deserve it. That's cool. If my husband is super reliable and is willing to bring my baby to do housework at home, I would be happy to support him. The full-time housewife is actually the hardest. Many people may still look at the faces of others because they are the one who is "raised". I don’t have a child and I’ve never experienced how hard it is to bring a baby, but I can now responsibly say that those bb girls’ lives are so easy, and people who don’t have to work hard to make money can shut up because the family is deprived of the right to work freedom. Everyone yearns for it. If my husband is super reliable and is willing to bring my baby to do housework at home, I would be happy to support him. The full-time housewife is actually the hardest. Many people may still look at the faces of others because they are the one who is "raised". I don’t have a child and I’ve never experienced how hard it is to bring a baby, but I can now responsibly say that those bb girls’ lives are so easy, and people who don’t have to work hard to make money can shut up because the family is deprived of the right to work freedom. Everyone yearns for it. If my husband is super reliable and is willing to bring my baby to do housework at home, I would be happy to support him. The full-time housewife is actually the hardest. Many people may still look at the faces of others because they are the one who is "raised". I don’t have a child and I’ve never experienced how hard it is to bring a baby, but I can now responsibly say that those bb girls’ lives are so easy, and people who don’t have to work hard to make money can shut up because the family is deprived of the right to work freedom. Everyone yearns for it.

That night Tully said that the relationship between her and her roommate was messed up. In fact, she was talking about Theron’s grievances with the cool sister that the film began to meet. The 26-year-old Theron had a quarrel with her roommate, and then they had no relationship. I can go back to like she said, girls don't heal. I live to be thirty years old, my friends are gradually gone, my body is not slim, my dreams are gone, only my husband and three children are left. But Theron used her 26-year-old self to say to her thirty-something that it was all worthwhile, and that family is her dream full of. When encountering difficulties in life, in fact, only oneself can save oneself.

I believe the ending is a good one. The son loves to hug, and the husband wakes up and decides to help more and listen to the symphony of love together. It’s great to go clubbing to listen to rock and roll and be crazy with friends, but the cucumber that I love for my husband and children at home is also good. To live this life, I want to experience everything again. The important thing is to pay attention to the present, this moment, to feel every minute well, and life is not as hopeless as it seems. See if your child is growing fast, is it full of accomplishment?

ps. At the end of the film, a black uncle (who was dragged by his wife to watch the movie) asked my husband how he felt about this movie. He probably wanted to complain about this kind of exaggerated female responsibility movie, which is boring. My husband said he likes it-"it's like for woman".

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  • Trudie 2021-12-29 08:01:48

    It belongs to the kind of small film that looks bland at first, but Yuepin is more empathetic, even if the viewer has no intersection with the characters in the film, for some audiences, it is exactly this kind of viewer and the character. The moderate distance created by the dislocation of the characters in the film gives the film a special "aesthetic feeling", which is more than just seeing and hearing. The director still sees his skill. In fact, he can just follow the development of the story in the first 80 minutes, but he just turned around. If the audience did not know the movie beforehand, they would be dumbfounded by the "revelation" of the last ten minutes. , But think carefully about this common setting in such a movie, it seems extremely reasonable. In addition, the most pleasant surprise is that I would have thought it was another Theron's solo show, but Mackenzie Davis's performance did not hinder him at all, and the several rivalries with Theron were almost unfavorable. And, why shouldn't this movie be labeled as a "comedy", what mentality can you laugh after watching it... There are also shortcomings, such as the last car accident scene, and think about it, there is actually a better one. The way to deal with it instead.

  • Trent 2022-03-25 09:01:14

    "Talking about Kevin", which has no adverse consequences, started from a full-time housewife looking for a confinement lady, and quietly turned to Lala and life is a bit strange, but after the classic reversal of the screen, all the plots, especially the neutral feelings, stood up. The ruthlessness of the cut before Tully's appearance was unfortunately not fully executed. Boys who play games don't want children

Tully quotes

  • Marlo: [Sarcastically] I want to kill myself.

    Sarah: What?

    Drew: No, mommy's just joking, honey. Like a clown.

    Marlo: [Mime-honks her nose] Honk!

  • Marlo: [Driving through her old Brooklyn neighborhood for the first time in years] That's a dog bakery now!

    Tully: What was it before?

    Marlo: A bakery for humans. People used to eat flour back then.