indeed, from small to large, competitive pressures school, college entrance examination, universities colorful Life...until now, taking various certification exams, working obediently under the guidance of instructors at graduate level...in the future, we will face job interviews, post-work pressure...everything we do Everything is not a draft. In every draft, we try to make the judges and the audience affirm ourselves. It seems that it has become a habit to get self-affirmation through the affirmation of others.
In a meeting a while ago, the boss mentioned everyone's strengths when forming the industry research group. After inspiring me, when referring to another colleague, she must act as if she is superior to herself. Is it necessary for you all the time? Your "national" and my "provincial" are not the same thing at all.
Before the CFA exam, many people posted flaunting posts in the forum, saying that their book 6 is more than 80%, and some of them have done more than 90%. It can be higher, and they have not played well.
In such a distorted environment, competition is always full of competition, even cooperation, eating, and chatting. We strive to make ourselves not to be outdone under any circumstances.
It's like the life of the intern Greyley.
When excellence has become a habit and competition has become a mode of life, we have learned to only be friends with people who do not pose a threat and protect ourselves. The sorrow of the 80s.
When I watched little miss sunshine and saw the whole family cheering for Oliver's striptease, my previous life state was all denied by the film: Why do we want other people's comments? Why do we need the affirmation of those who have nothing to do with us? We only want to be happy, and only our family members are our eternal judges and audience.
But when we return to the real life, can we still let go of our posture, can we abandon everything? It's impossible. The habit that we have cultivated over the years makes us sink deeper and deeper, even if this habit is wrong. Faced with the provocations of others' words and actions, we can only attack them without showing weakness. So we participate in more "drafts" in an effort to gain more recognition and defeat our opponents.
When being good becomes a habit, Oliver's words become a bunch of shit. But the moment he heard what he said was really shocked.
In addition, it resonates with the support of the whole family in the film. Take action to support those we love and those who love us, no matter what difficulties we are in.
A very good movie.
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