But the problem is not the number of million apartments, but her thoughts, whether she loves marriage or not, she doesn’t want to be a divorced woman who lacks gold or silver, because on the surface it seems that other housewives support herself. Plus, but in fact, 8 out of 10 of them said that they were stupid, and the other two would say that their behavior in asking for an apartment was shameless and disrespectful.
Let's take a look at what the housewives in the movie usually do?
In order to prevent the absence of youth, all day long beauty and fitness plasticity, it is just that you often don't see your husband, even if you really meet. Knowing that the man and another woman were sleeping on the other side of the door, but when they came out and told her that the woman was a business partner, she nodded and believed.
Look, they are more like concubine dogs, graceful and graceful, good at wagging their tails and acting up, and then their master kicks you away when they get tired of them, ignoring them.
Don't beg your man like a dog. It won't make him change his mind, it will only make you look lower and inspire his ambition.
Don’t say anything about changing yourself for your beloved, don’t say changing because of loving him, if he also loves you, he will also change, I have nothing to say, this is a good man, hold on to not let go, but the problem is most The men unilaterally ask the woman to change, arrogantly.
If he did not love you at the beginning, he would not be with you. If he loved you, he would not tolerate your shortcomings. If he could not tolerate your fart and hiccups, what would you tell him?
Two days ago, I saw a 100 guidelines for being a good woman. After reading it, I felt that if a woman really did this, it would really be a peaceful world. Because in the future, the man will be a nanny slut punching bag multifunctional female creature, the inflatable doll manufacturer must be closed down, and all the A-film sellers will be hit to death.
At that time, every man will have a pug in human skin beside him. She may bark at you twice, but you can just touch her head and give her a bone. For a woman, you will be more angry. It's a good one for you. If you have a bad temper, kick you up and let you lie down in the corner and hum. Don’t mess around, pooping and peeing on the ground, so he will definitely throw you into the street with his hand and let you wind canlousu. Sleeping in the street, and then picked up by the rags or migrant workers grabbed the skin and boiled it, but the bones are all broken by you, and then a poop of shit is pulled out to nourish the earth.
The housewife in the movie is such a character. She carefully maintains her marriage. Even if she finds a lover’s underwear, she will force the nanny to admit it. My first sentence refers to the movie itself) to get psychological masturbation.
And her biggest authority to get angry is to go to the country to recuperate. When she heard that her husband wanted to travel with the family, she would be happy like a puppy wagging its tail around each other, but the other party never cared about her feelings, in order to save this During the marriage, she even lied that she was pregnant. This product of the standard mode of crying, making troubles and hanging herself can only make herself look humble and unbearable.
The final ending looked very bright. The housewife finally chose to divorce the damn man, and after sharing a sum of money, she lived happily with her child, but we must understand that this is just a movie.
In reality, the Hu Ziwei incident seems to be more realistic. The final result after the riotous TV is "Zhang Bin Hu Ziwei rebuilds the old three. Eighth sweet house viewing".
Many people said that Hu's approach was improper, and they even took out the Olympics to talk about it, saying what was embarrassing. The bastard I'm talking about must be a man, and even if he has no concubine, 80% of them have looked for a young lady.
In my opinion, there is nothing wrong with Hu Ziwei's work, but Zhang Bin is to blame. The second wife Bao was accidentally discovered by the big grandmother, and her sense of class struggle is not strong. She deserves to be embarrassed.
But what makes the maiden rightsists embarrassed is that Hu Ziwei, who had torn her face, finally returned to Zhang Bin's arms. It seems that life can sometimes be more nonsense than movies.
In their view, Hu Ziwei had the courage to divorce her former husband and find Zhang Bin, and had the courage to make a big fuss on TV. Then why didn't she have the courage to break with Zhang Bin again?
But divorce is not a game, either you die or I live.
Even if the idiot housewife in the movie is divorced, she still has a large sum of money paid to her by her husband, as well as her own son. But what about Hu Ziwei? What will happen to this woman who has already made her way to the old woman after the second divorce?
She has no children as sustenance, and she may lose her job forever, unlike the woman in the movie to sit back and relax.
She is old, she doesn't have the strength and energy to toss and talk about finding true love.
High-spirited, romantic and unrestrained is not an endless empty check. She will always be consumed, by others, by herself, and she has no ability to dump this man like she did last time.
She has no strength.
This is reality. Men in reality are more shameless than in movies, while women in reality often do not have the courage and luck in movies.
Extreme feminist remarks are very popular with ladies. I have been thinking about why, and then I suddenly remembered the conversation with my father a few years ago. His words can explain the reason.
I can’t remember the specific content at that time. I just remember that my father said at the time: “The hype on Women’s Day can only prove that women are still in a weak position.”
I think the topics we discussed at the time were nothing more than two. Firstly, to what extent the status of women has been elevated, and secondly, why there is no Men’s Day, but at the time it is no longer important to discuss what was discussed. The main thing is what my father said.
Why the majority of women admire and respect extreme feminism is because they have not yet obtained the state they want. This state is not money or rights and status, but a psychological feeling that she does not have a clear yardstick.
Therefore, they are eager to express their own attitudes and prove their position for certain opinions of some people, so as to tell everyone that they can live without a man if they are independent. In fact, this is a kind of subconscious guilty conscience.
The publicity of the media and the influence of society gave people the illusion (like me) that women really dominate half the sky, and those strong women who watched TV when they were young, think that women are really getting better and better, economy, politics, sports, and people’s livelihood. , They are everywhere, they are omnipotent, they go to heaven and earth, I wondered if the world would return to matrilineal society in a few days, and men would become lower creatures. Of course, thinking about it now, when technology advances to the point where no labor is needed, it is not impossible for women to replace men.
But women, don’t be happy when you see this place. You need to slap yourself in the face to wake up, because in real life you have to live steadily, because the moment when a woman truly turns to be the master has yet to come. Turning to be a master is not harmonious and harmonious. The argument is that they have the same status as men and are on an equal footing.
Colleagues around me usually say that my wife is like a vicious tiger, all overbearing can't do it, but when it comes to the truth, I will tidy up my wife three times and two times. This shows what I don’t say, everyone understands. .
When I was learning painting, I was taught by two teachers. The tutor was a man who was witty and humorous. He loved to read ancient Buddhist scriptures and was peaceful. When he was painting at night, he and another person talked about his partner (female). Only then did I know that she was divorced, took the child by herself, and studied at Tsinghua for a few years. With the child, she returned to Zhengzhou again. At that time, the teacher said: "I am a woman after all." I was very uncomfortable listening to the painting. That was a good teacher, although I only had direct contact with her once.
Men have always looked at women with a squint. This squint itself carries a squint. It is undeniable that they would sincerely praise a few women, but only because the other's abilities are too outstanding, like two salesmen, one man and one woman. In a month, I have completed the same beautiful business, but people will only pay attention to that woman, saying that she is capable and great. This is a squint in itself, because in their eyes it is incredible for women to do so well (in other words, they think women cannot do so well). There are not only men but also women who hold this view.
The question of "Never marry a strong woman as a wife" has been said countless times, and I am too lazy to say it again, to take it out, just to testify to the man's boring squint and shit self-esteem.
Why don't men marry a strong woman? It's not because of this woman's super-strong work ability and status, but because of her status as a woman, it discourages men. They are scared, they don't know what kind of power this heart contains, can they control it?
You just need to be yourself, you don't need to consider how much money you earn, you just have to be brave and do what you want to do. Don't care about the eyes of others.
When people’s attention to Women’s Day is no longer like the people’s just being liberated, no longer like the old society for the New Year, when women and men are as capable as men, there are no more whistles and surprises, then we can truly say that men and women are equal, or fundamentally. Needless to say this bullshit.
Another: Don't look for a man who only wants a tail for you, just look for your own reasons.
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