Those who are mourned have nowhere to go, and those who are in pain walk together, so why not head in vain?

Thomas 2022-03-26 09:01:08

Nicole is really suitable for such a forbearing role with inner pain but calm and elegant on the surface. This delicate expression makes people feel the pain of a mother who lost her child more deeply. She doesn't believe in God herself, but the members of the mutual aid group like to use the God theory to resolve her inner grief. If a mother wants to find a suitable channel to resolve the pain of bereavement, this channel must make sense. The encounter with the perpetrator was an accident, but it certainly showed Nicole a path. Nicole blamed herself for not locking the door of her house, believing that her son's death was caused by herself, but at the same time she deeply knew that it was an accident, an accident caused by countless accidents. This contradictory mood gradually began to resolve after encountering the perpetrators. She felt the apology and remorse of the perpetrator through chatting, and while forgiving the perpetrator, she also forgave herself. The reference to the parallel universe theory seems like a voice of God, telling Nicole, it's ok, your child lives in so many time and space, it just happens that your time and space is a sad version, in other time and space, he may still be alive hapiness. This kind of theory linked to science is like a booster, although there are only vague possibilities, but it is enough to make Nicole get up from the desperate situation, give her the strength to move forward with weight, and make the road ahead not so dazed and hopeless.

Compared to Nicole, her husband's way of resolving grief is not as tactful as Nicole's, but what I love most is his thick and thin. He knew he was going to help his wife out, so he suggested that she go to a mutual aid group, see a psychiatrist, stand by Nicole's side when she behaved excessively, understand her, and tolerate her. After listening to my friend's advice, I actively wanted to have another child with my wife to stop the sadness. Even if he is occasionally overwhelmed by anger, he can still realize his love for Nicole at a critical moment, so as to stick to his original intention and stick to his responsibility. That quarrel scene was the most enjoyable for me to watch. They were not complaining about each other more, but explaining themselves to each other and seeking understanding. The quarrel between lovers is sometimes not scary, but will open up some words that are usually not spoken to become frank.

I also like the ending. In adversity, you did not give up, and I did not give up. If life is destined to be a journey with weights, why can't it be just two people?

Salute to all the lovely people who have gone through tragic and reunited!

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  • [last lines]

    Becca: [voice-over] And then what?

    Howie: [voice-over] I don't know... Something though.

  • Nat: You know, Becca, when your brother died, I found the church very helpful.

    Becca: I know. I know you did, but that's you. That's not me, and Danny... Danny isn't Arthur.

    Nat: You know, I brought you to church every Sunday.

    Becca: Let's not start this again, okay, Mom? I'm just... I'm just calling about the cake.

    Nat: You're not right about everything, you know? What if there is a God?

    Becca: Then I'd say he's a sadistic prick.

    Nat: All right, Becca, that's enough.

    Becca: "Worship me and I'll treat you like shit." No wonder you like him. He sounds just like Dad.