Joey herself is obviously smart enough, alert, thoughtful and active, and there are many such people around the world, but Joey's success deserves to be recorded in the annals of history, because her probability of success is only one ten thousandth
1. Sins of the original family
After Joey's parents divorced, his mother was completely devastated, completely living in the fantasy of the TV series, unable to take care of himself, while his father was romantic everywhere, and after hitting a wall, he turned back to seek the protection of his daughter, and the half-sister who was stubborn but useless. , and her divorced husband living in the basement. Such a combination not only can not bring any benefit to Joey, but also continuously absorbs the energy of Joey. They keep denying Joey and setting up obstacles for Joey's way forward. Therefore, the success rate of people who grow up in this kind of family is only one in ten thousand. Most people, even if they still look forward to infinite possibilities in their hearts, even if they are talented, they fall into the quagmire of life and become the most ordinary you, me and him. The mother of two children may already be the highest achievement in life.
2. Mutual destruction of excessive entanglement
We can't choose what kind of family we are born into, and we can't leave because our original family is not ideal. I personally think that the reason why this unfortunate family of origin falls into unfortunate reincarnation is because the boundaries in the family are not clear enough. That is, the frenulum between parent and child is too tight, thus tying each other. This is actually the conclusion that I agree with after seeing Wu Hongying's Giant Baby Kingdom.
I especially like a sentence, but I forgot the exact original words. The general meaning is: parents are just a way for children to be born into this world. Children are grateful for this, but life is the child's own and must be completed completely and alone. It may not be particularly pleasant to say this, and it will make some people disgusted, but I do believe that people need to be independent and have an independent personality and soul before they can be called people.
Parents are asked to give their children appropriate autonomy as soon as possible, protect their privacy, and respect their children's likes and dislikes.
Parents, please don't interfere too much with the life your children choose. Careers, partners, and lifestyles should all be our own choices. Even if we may fall, we are not afraid.
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