unspeakable debt

Letha 2022-03-27 09:01:18

unspeakable debt

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After reading the introduction, I thought it was the same thing as the Chinese college entrance examination. Parents went through the back door to let their children pass the exam. But after reading it, I think more than that. First of all, parents do have this idea, but the premise is that the child has excellent grades and has applied for a scholarship from a famous foreign school, and only needs the test scores. On the eve of the exam, the girl was attacked. At first I thought it was just a collision and the girl was injured, but later I found out that it was the girl who was violated, and this kind of thing seemed to be normal in her country. This is also the reason why parents try so hard to let their daughter go abroad and live a normal life. Because of this accident, it will inevitably affect the child's mood for the exam, but to avoid losing this opportunity, the father walked through the back door. This process is not how I imagined him to bow down and greet him with a smile to find a way, but he did a favor to a friend, and the friend could contact the officials of the examination board to solve the problem, that is, let the child do his own test paper. a marker. My father, who is a doctor, was uneasy. When negotiating with the officials of the examination committee, the other party also said that everything he got was honestly obtained, which is rare. Even when I was talking about it with my wife, my wife didn't agree.

She felt it was unfair, dishonest and contrary to what she usually told her children. The wife is righteous, but in the husband's view, the child has excellent grades, and he cannot fail the graduation exam due to an accident, thus losing the opportunity to go abroad. And this kind of exam everyone knows and can't prove anything, and no one has cheated in the final exam. But his wife is still tit for tat. She said that she did not cheat in the exam. She said that it is important to enter the normal world, but the means to enter is also very important. It all sounds reasonable. The doctor said that because of his rigidity, he is now just a librarian, unable to do anything. He thinks that his wife is just unwilling to take responsibility for saying this, and everything is left to him. In his eyes, the attack on his daughter was not an accident, but a problem of the country. He did not want his daughter to grow up in such an environment. He and his wife have dedicated their youth here, but nothing has changed. He doesn't want his daughter to continue on this path. Is this the doctor's wishful thinking or the love for his daughter? She is so old, she has the right to choose to do what she likes, decide whether to cheat, whether to go abroad, whether to fall in love with a man on a motorcycle? The wife said so, and the doctor tacitly agreed. The doctor was happy that the daughter did not mark the test paper, but if there was no accident that was investigated later, and the daughter lost the opportunity to go abroad because she did not pass the exam, she stayed in the country and found a job, and regretted it after a few years? Who knows? At the end, the daughter said that she did not have enough time for the exam, and cried, begging them to give herself some time, and they agreed. She smiled and raised her head to tell her father, as if to say, look, isn't that enough? But is this really possible? I don't know, the movie doesn't say that. Because the doctor wanted to go through the back door, he ran into the field with a flashlight at night and cried, just because he violated his integrity, because he wanted his daughter to do something that was spurned, but what is the so-called justice? My daughter has a tutor since she was a child, and a first-class English teacher does homework, but other families do not have this condition. Is this fair? I won't talk about going through the back door. I want to say that for them, when their daughter is still powerful, it is so humiliating and uneasy to go through the back door. This is the normal state of the country, the normal state of the middle class, or the special psychology of the family. ? A doctor is not just a doctor. He always thinks of the country, the next generation, who is completely an intellectual image. Likewise, his wife, who has her own ideas and self-esteem, smokes a cigarette, and is also a talent of that generation. And their mother, vaguely remembering that she seemed to say it was not good to stay in this country, and try to change it.

In addition to the above, there is also the doctor's derailment. The reason for the derailment is not stated. I guess it is because of the wife's illness. If it wasn't for the daughter's stubbornness, I don't know if the doctor would confess to his wife. Even if she is sick, even if her husband still cares for her daughter after cheating, she still cannot tolerate betrayal. A woman with such a strong personality should have been full of charm at the beginning.

As for the doctor himself, he worked everywhere, solving problems for his daughter, his mistress, and his mother. But in the end, he was investigated first and then brought down by his daughter's boyfriend. His wife asked him to return the key, and his daughter ignored him. What did he do wrong? He had to go through the back door because of his children. The prosecutor's investigator said he understood, but when they suggested that they could intercede for him if they were allowed to examine the patient that day, he refused. As a doctor, he is responsible for his patients. And the prosecutors say they don't know how the same thing will be done, but the law is like this, but in order to achieve their own goals, doctors violate professional standards. What exactly is right? These things can be explained clearly, but it seems difficult to explain what kind of debt it is between parents and children. (2018.5.4)

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