On April 28, 2018, I watched this film alone in my residence. I was deeply shocked. Generation after generation of Chinese women, in order to be respected and for their own value, challenged the feudal society and challenged patriarchy, how touching. In order to give her daughter a good life, Lindo's mother introduced her to a large family at the age of five and made her a child bride at the age of 15. Mom taught lindo to have a backbone, don't be afraid. Unable to stand her mother-in-law's coercion to make her grandson beat her, she pretended to be insane and managed to escape from the house. . When she grew up, her daughter was a chess champion, but she couldn't stand Lindo's always showing off to others, so she got angry and didn't learn chess. Lindo didn't say anything, until the daughter wanted to regain it herself but found that her talent had gradually disappeared... Later, she married a foreigner, and the two had a dispute over the hair on the eve of the wedding. When the daughter finally broke out and accused her mother of always treating her in various ways. After the opinion is never satisfied and never happy, lindo said that you finally made me happy now...the two hugged together, crying and laughing.
Yingying is a very beautiful girl. When she was in her teens, she saw a boy who was interested in him, splitting melons and pockets with her bare hands. She smiled and said shyly and coquettishly, "Shit." In fact, he was also interested in that man. After all, he was very romantic and suave. After the two got married, the man still did not change his romantic nature. At her son's full moon celebration banquet, he flirted with the singer in public, and he would often not return home at night. Finally, after waiting in the middle of the night again and again, he brought this woman to the room in front of her, and insulted her as a prostitute. She wanted to stab him with the broken ceramics, but under his loud scolding, he was angry and angry. Dare to resist. In the end, she accidentally drowned their son... Her soul has gone away with the child's departure. . There was very little left for the daughter later (lack of care), until she found that her daughter's marriage was completely AA, and even the husband counted a lot of what he ate as an equal share or all the girls, and the daughter didn't eat ice cream at all. , the boys are also divided into two halves. Yingying finally spoke up for her daughter, plucked up the courage to negotiate with this selfish husband, and asked her daughter to make it clear that what you want is respect and warmth. And tell her what a big deal it is to lose him, um, the black and white stripes of the window of the movie at the moment are reflected on people's faces, a magical and serious atmosphere is fascinating. .
There is also a mother who went to worship her because her husband died and was favored by the landlord. The second wife used tricks to let the landlord rape her. She was pregnant, so she didn’t understand her at her husband’s and her parents’ home. She disgusted her, and she couldn’t bear her daughter. Under these circumstances, I can only be the fourth concubine, and finally one day she can't stand it anymore, swallowing opium and leaving... Thinking of giving her own soul to her daughter, to resist this corrupt and sinful environment, really those bad people are afraid, She also rectified her mother's status, and the landlord also promised to take good care of them... Her daughter originally showed confidence and generosity when she fell in love with the handsome blue-eyed guy, but after marriage, the unknown inferiority complex in her bones gradually replaced her confidence. She is cheerful, and takes her husband as the most important thing in everything. Without her own thoughts, she is deeply afraid that her husband will be unhappy. Without self, she has no dignity. The bigger the man, the more he will not take her seriously, and there are others. . After listening to my grandmother and my mother's silent resistance to fate, in the rain, she told her husband in the rain that it was my domineering to get out of my house, the children and the house, and the two reconciled again... Probably marriage Self-confidence, self-respect, and self-awareness are the prerequisites for a balanced marriage. Know what you want, and don’t lose your self-awareness without harming others. Don’t lose yourself. Intangible pressure is often self-imposed. Really respect, not blindly please, blindly feel that the needs of the other party are more important than their own. The same people, no one is more noble than you.
In the end, it was the mother of twins. During the war, she also fell ill. She was afraid of dying next to her children. She took off all her valuable accessories, and only hoped that someone could bring their daughters back to her husband in Chongqing. . So she said goodbye to the twins for decades... So she pinned all her hopes on her little daughter, but the little daughter who played the piano had no interest in it, and the piano teacher was deaf and couldn't hear anything wrong, so she made an appearance at the performance. Foreign appearance... The relationship between mother and daughter has not been very good until the father told his daughter why he abandoned the twins and the "goose feather": all mothers must definitely have hope for their children" She finally understood the mother's heart , and went back to China to hug and cry with her two sisters. This is what she wants to do for her mother. The relationship between mother and daughter in China is probably mostly obscure, and they care about each other in their hearts, but they cannot be shy Expressing this emotion. Mothers always have great hopes for their children, and they all hope to accomplish what they cannot do, and impose their own life dreams on their daughters, but they don’t know that the invisible pressure on their daughters makes them gradually Far……
I can't help myself after watching this movie for a long time, I think I will watch it again soon. . Too much content, maybe I'm just scratching the surface. .
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