the tragedy of marriage

Edison 2022-03-26 09:01:14

I watched the play first, then watched the movie in the archive.

No matter how you say it, marriage is actually a lose-lose process. Dissatisfaction or betrayal towards each other, life, and all kinds of things seems to come from trivial matters, from someone, but in the final analysis, it is to yourself. Everyone wants to find a balance, but no one has taught us how to deal with our own thoughts, so we make up illusory objects, like talking to a malfunctioning phone, on and off where we can't hear Filling in according to your own imagination is actually just talking to yourself. When this kind of self-talk is exposed, it may be angry, painful, or collapsed, but it is the same situation as turning on the front camera of the iPhone and suddenly realizing that I look different from Meitu Xiuxiu.

This is especially true of marriages that result from love.

But in the end, there is no marriage that is not caused by love.

So our tragedy is inevitable.

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  • Greyson 2022-03-16 09:01:09

    In this way, in fact, everyone is suitable for marriage. Anyway, it is whether you are willing to accept the real yourself half-way through compromise on the spot. Marriage is about the art of deception because it didn't even exist.

  • Burdette 2022-03-25 09:01:23

    Loving the new and disliking the old seems to be an inalienable nature. If you don’t love it, you will separate. It’s useless to struggle.

Scenes from a Marriage quotes

  • Marianne: I felt inadequate at work and at home, and I was a washout in bed too. I was hedged in by all the griping and endless demands! Goddamn you! Was it so strange that I used sex for leverage? I was outnumbered, having to fight you, both sets of parents and society! When I think about what I endured, I could scream! I tell you this: never again! You sit there whining about conspiracies. Well, it serves you right! I hope you'll have it rammed down your throat that you're a useless parasite.

    Johan: You're being utterly grotesque!

    Marianne: So what? That's what I've become!

  • Marianne: Sometimes you ask such goddamn silly questions.

    Johan: Sorry. Are you angry with me?

    Marianne: I'm not angry, but I'm on the verge of tears. The trouble with me is that I can't get angry. I wish that for once in my life I could really lose my temper, as I sometimes feel I have every right to. I think it would change my life. But that's not the point. You spoke earlier about loneliness. That bit about being strong on your own. I don't believe in your gospel of isolation.I think it's a sign of weakness.

    Johan: What's wrong, Marianne?

    Marianne: It's so... humbling.

    Johan: What's humbling?

    Marianne: I think about you... and I think about myself and about the future. I can't see how you're going to cope without me. Sometimes I think in desperation, "I must look after Johan. He's my responsibility. It's up to me to make sure he's all right. That's the only our lives will be worthwhile."

    Marianne: I don't believe people are strong all on their own. You have to have someone's hand to hold.