Each of us longs for love, but few of us truly understand it. Many couples quarrel, in fact, want to prove that they care more about each other and love each other more. However, what is said often turns into a vent of dissatisfaction. The more the other party doesn't want to listen to what he says, the more he wants to prove his love, but it becomes a proof of being hurt. Unfortunate love has its own unfortunate, and the law of true love to master happiness is the same. Falling in love is only the first step towards happiness, but to achieve long-term happiness requires practice of love.
The movie "FIREPROOF", the Chinese name is "Firefighter", in the movie there is a book that guides the protagonist's true love cultivation, which is "Refinement of Love: 40 Days of True Love Challenge", which became a super best-seller on Amazon.com as soon as it was published. , No. 1 on the bestseller list in Europe and America. It is a collection of true love that is popular in Europe, America and Taiwan.
The story tells the story of Keller, a firefighter who, in the face of a marriage that was on the verge of collapse, under the urging of his father, reluctantly embarked on a journey of "The Challenge of Love" in an attempt to save the marriage. Keller is a heroic and capable fire brigade captain, regarded as a hero by everyone except his wife. Their lives were full of disputes and dissatisfaction. After another fierce quarrel, his wife Katherine gave up completely and wanted to give up the seven-year marriage and leave Keller. Keller's father gave Keller a notebook and said to him, "It's a challenge, the process is always difficult, but it can give you great satisfaction, as long as you do it one day at a time, 40 days in a row, the result It will change your life and your marriage." So amazing? Keller didn't believe it, but he promised to do the "homework" as required, even for his parents. In the beginning, Keller tackled these challenges every day and with his perfunctory attitude. "Day 1: Today, please try not to speak ill of your spouse (negative comments), and yes, not a word." - Keller would have wanted to get mad at his wife, remembering "homework" and clenching his fists Just kept silent. "Day 2: Show your kindness and kindness to your spouse by doing at least one unexpected thing." - Keller wrote a poor little card to his wife. "Day 3: Buy something for your spouse to express your feelings and say, "I'm thinking of you today! "" - Keller picked around and bought the cheapest little bunch of flowers for his wife. ... But even such a small contribution made his wife Catherine feel "it's incredible". The result of her discussion with her female companions was that "there must be demons when things go wrong", all of which must be Keller's deliberate tactic to take advantage of the divorce and divide the family property. If Catherine is deceived by him, she may voluntarily give up some rights. Seemingly warm giving is all a trick, nothing more! For the next ten days, no matter how Keller showed her favor, Catherine turned a blind eye. On the eighteenth day, Keller prepared a candlelight dinner for Catherine to come back from get off work to have dinner together. Catherine simply had a showdown with Keller and told him that nothing could be saved. She had hired a lawyer and drawn up a divorce agreement. She would not give up any rights and let Keller put away that trick. Keller couldn't take it any longer. He said to his father, "How can I continue to show love to someone who has repeatedly rejected me?" The old father led Keller to the statue of Jesus on the cross and said, " Yes! Who can keep showing love to someone who has repeatedly rejected him?" "Romans 5: 6 For while we were still weak, Christ died for sinners at the appointed time. (quoted in typesetting here) Jesus kept knocking on Keller's door, but Keller always thought he could handle all the hardships in life on his own. He didn't really accept Jesus, and he wasn't religious He had prayed and kept rejecting Jesus from entering his life. "What is impossible with man is possible with God". Keller repented and entrusted everything to Jesus. He prayed devoutly and asked God for his marriage. At the same time, Sincerely repented, realized what he had done wrong in the marriage relationship, and determined to make a real change. Keller quietly took out the money that he had saved for a long time to buy a boat and bought a purchase for Catherine's mother that Catherine wanted for a long time but could not afford. and put more sincerity and energy to complete the tasks in "The Challenge of Love". At this time, Keller was not just perfunctory to save the marriage, he thought from the bottom of his heart that these challenges were all The responsibilities and obligations that should be fulfilled as a member of the marriage. The wife was finally moved by Keller, and she also understood that what Keller did was not out of bad intentions. Catherine asked Keller, how many times in the homework has been done God? Keller's answer was "Day 43". Katherine was surprised because she saw this love challenge, there were only 40 days of homework in total. But Keller said, "Who says I can only do 40 days? ? I will keep doing it. "Yeah, love starts with "perseverance" and finally reaches the end of "love is an eternal promise". "A woman is like a rose, if you treat her well, she will bloom, if you treat her badly, she will wither". "Fireproof It doesn't mean that the fire will never come, but when the fire comes, it can bear it." Keller wants to grasp the key to intimacy and a strong love marriage, bravely accept the challenge, and feel the heart in the challenge. The transformation of , Katherine was also affected, and the flower of love bloomed in front of them! Think of the process of refining love as a marathon, not a sprint, it is a race worth working hard. You, don't you want to try it? (quoted in typesetting here) Jesus kept knocking on Keller's door, but Keller always thought he could handle all the hardships in life on his own. He didn't really accept Jesus, and he wasn't religious He had prayed and kept rejecting Jesus from entering his life. "What is impossible with man is possible with God". Keller repented and entrusted everything to Jesus. He prayed devoutly and asked God for his marriage. At the same time, Sincerely repented, realized what he had done wrong in the marriage relationship, and determined to make a real change. Keller quietly took out the money that he had saved for a long time to buy a boat and bought a purchase for Catherine's mother that Catherine wanted for a long time but could not afford. and put more sincerity and energy to complete the tasks in "The Challenge of Love". At this time, Keller was not just perfunctory to save the marriage, he thought from the bottom of his heart that these challenges were all The responsibilities and obligations that should be fulfilled as a member of the marriage. The wife was finally moved by Keller, and she also understood that what Keller did was not out of bad intentions. Catherine asked Keller, how many times in the homework has been done God? Keller's answer was "Day 43". Katherine was surprised because she saw this love challenge, there were only 40 days of homework in total. But Keller said, "Who says I can only do 40 days? ? I will keep doing it. "Yeah, love starts with "perseverance" and finally reaches the end of "love is an eternal promise". "A woman is like a rose, if you treat her well, she will bloom, if you treat her badly, she will wither". "Fireproof It doesn't mean that the fire will never come, but when the fire comes, it can bear it." Keller wants to grasp the key to intimacy and a strong love marriage, bravely accept the challenge, and feel the heart in the challenge. The transformation of , Katherine was also affected, and the flower of love bloomed in front of them! Think of the process of refining love as a marathon, not a sprint, it is a race worth working hard. You, don't you want to try it? (quoted in typesetting here) Jesus kept knocking on Keller's door, but Keller always thought he could handle all the hardships in life on his own. He didn't really accept Jesus, and he wasn't religious He had prayed and kept rejecting Jesus from entering his life. "What is impossible with man is possible with God". Keller repented and entrusted everything to Jesus. He prayed devoutly and asked God for his marriage. At the same time, Sincerely repented, realized what he had done wrong in the marriage relationship, and determined to make a real change. Keller quietly took out the money that he had saved for a long time to buy a boat, and bought Catherine's mother a long-awaited but unable to pay. and put more sincerity and energy to complete the tasks in "The Challenge of Love". At this time, Keller was not just perfunctory to save the marriage, he thought from the bottom of his heart that these challenges were all The responsibilities and obligations that should be fulfilled as a member of the marriage. The wife was finally moved by Keller, and she also understood that what Keller did was not out of bad intentions. Catherine asked Keller, how many times in the homework has been done God? Keller's answer was "Day 43". Katherine was surprised because she saw this love challenge, there were only 40 days of homework in total. But Keller said, "Who says I can only do 40 days? ? I will keep doing it. "Yeah, love starts with "perseverance" and finally reaches the end of "love is an eternal promise". "A woman is like a rose, if you are good to her, she will bloom, if you are not good to her, she will wither". "Fireproof It doesn't mean that the fire will never come, but when the fire comes, it can be endured." Keller wants to grasp the key to intimacy and a strong love marriage, bravely accept the challenge, and feel the heart in the challenge. The transformation of , Katherine was also affected, and the flower of love bloomed in front of them! Think of the process of cultivating love as a marathon, not a sprint, it is a race worth working hard. You, don't you want to try it? Le, how many days have you done your homework? Keller's answer was "Day 43." Catherine was surprised because she saw that this book of love challenges, a total of only 40 days of homework. But Keller said, "Who says I can only do it for 40 days? I'll keep doing it." Yes, love begins with "enduring" and ends with "love is an eternal covenant." "A woman is like a rose, if you treat her well, she will bloom, if you treat her badly, she will wither." "Fireproofing doesn't mean that fire will never come, but when fire comes, it can withstand it." Keller wants to grasp the key to intimacy and a stable love marriage, bravely accepts the challenge, and undergoes an inner transformation during the challenge, Katherine is also affected, and the flower of love blooms in front of them! Treat the process of cultivating love as a marathon, not a sprint. It is a race worthy of hard work. You, don't you want to try it? Le, how many days have you done your homework? Keller's answer was "Day 43." Catherine was surprised because she saw that this book of love challenges, a total of only 40 days of homework. But Keller said, "Who says I can only do it for 40 days? I'll keep doing it." Yes, love begins with "enduring" and ends with "love is an eternal covenant." "A woman is like a rose, if you treat her well, she will bloom, if you treat her badly, she will wither." "Fireproofing doesn't mean that fire will never come, but when fire comes, it can withstand it." Keller wants to grasp the key to intimacy and a stable love marriage, bravely accepts the challenge, and undergoes an inner transformation during the challenge, Katherine is also affected, and the flower of love blooms in front of them! Treat the process of cultivating love as a marathon, not a sprint. It is a race worthy of hard work. You, don't you want to try it?
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