Is there a moment in your life when you feel like you have to do something instead of living in such a muddled way.
For me, this moment was on the evening of March 8, 2018. At a dinner party of separation and celebration, I saw the growth, transformation and determination of others. Another parallel universe made another choice, but this was a change, so after two nights of tossing and turning, it felt like it was about time.
Not about blind comparison and influence, but about the edge of twentyseven, about the awakeness of consciousness, about tepping out the comfortable zone. Therefore, I decided to regularly update and write something about growth, about love, about movie music, about factual trends, about dressing and matching... A punk rock spirit with a little literary and fresh appearance is actually resistance and resistance, unable to Satisfying the realistic rules and seriousness, adding another rebellious aesthetic to the boring life, without radical postmodernism, but wanting to be a representative of the real thoughts in your heart and mine.
Everyone will become sensitive and entangled in their own growth for a period of time, and they want to find a sense of existence to prove themselves, just like what I wrote here as a flag, it is not the inner uncompromising that is at fault . It's just that some people choose to suppress this tingling feeling and turn it into contentment with the status quo. Some people, like you and me, find the crux of the problem and start to talk about it. It takes a lot of courage and perseverance to achieve a qualitative leap from one state to another.
Just like Nadian in the movie "Growing Up", when her best friend and best friend from childhood to adulthood are with her own brother, she feels that the world has collapsed. This is a moment of great change, and some cognitive changes are needed to cope with this. This uncomfortable feeling, this pressure to change, is a manifestation of growth. Of course, we can't do crazy rebellious actions like the seventeen-year-old nadian in the movie. After all, he is an adult who has stepped into the society and should be responsible for himself and others.
There are several characters in the movie. Losing her husband, suffering from depression, she will find her eldest son's mother when she encounters troubles; she is the perfect brother who has suffered an unacceptable family spirit at her age, but is still misunderstood by her sister. ; a close friend and best friend who treats the world tenderly; and a miraculous teacher who is always cold but indifferent. A person wants to rely on another person, and when he is helpless, he always wants to grab a life-saving straw, whether it is a mother's dependence on her son, or a nadian's possession of a friend and a teacher's help, or a brother from a close friend and a best friend. The warmth and relaxation you get there.
We always want to use external force to change, it is understandable that this is a simple and useful way. How to reach reconciliation with the world, first of all, you have to reach reconciliation with yourself, no longer hate yourself, no longer feel sorry for yourself, no longer think that you can’t fit in with the crowd, no longer feel hypocritical because the idea of praising others is really cool, no longer think that Work life and even the whole world are sorry for myself, but I can live happily and magnanimously.
I especially like the movie, where nadian and nick are driving on a rainy night, listening to the big jet plane indulging in the dim yellow streetlights, this youthful throbbing romantic hormone, what a real romantic existence.
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