Grandma Tree said: What kind of life did your father want to live? I didn't understand it until the day he died.
And many, fallen writers, do not have legitimate careers. A person who does not want to be like a father, but eventually his father gets on his body, buys lottery tickets, gambles, does not support his mother, and even pawns all the valuable things in the family. Many ex-wives, working, raising children, remarrying, and entering the next stage of life, are meticulous. What is the man thinking?
She is also a grandmother tree in her later years, and she is interested in learning classical music with her friends. If my father can do this, I will really be very happy, and there will be no so-called depression. I just want to know, what the hell is my dad thinking? What does my dad need? I always tell my dad that if you like calligraphy, then you should practice calligraphy more and set a small goal for yourself, such as participating in a calligraphy meeting and making more like-minded old friends. no progress.
I began to suspect a problem, men and women, apart from the difference in physical structure, from a spiritual level, there may be a deep-rooted asymmetry, and innate dislocation. (Premise, non-feminist issue.)
A bold conjecture.
1. Men - being that kind of people are
born with the ambition to expand outwards, they crave honor, status, sense of achievement, power, self-esteem, power...and have the energy to match it. These are not their weaknesses, they are lifelong pursuits, life, and life in their eyes. When they face loss, everything will collapse, not referring to the family, but to the character that he has suppressed for a long time in order to obtain these. You probably never really knew them before the collapse. They need to rebuild, but with more difficulty and less time, they start to rack their brains, and even do whatever it takes to regain the face and self-esteem they once had.
For them, the word "life" is just a small piece of territory in life. Many people said: It is very difficult to become such a person. Note that the question he asks has nothing to do with life, he is chasing his goals, life is in the back of his mind, and goals come first. (This theory applies to my father, many, many fathers.
2. Women - life is actually very simple
. Grandma said a word: "life is actually very simple". Have you noticed? The starting point of men , it's not life at all, it's "being that kind of person", and in the mouth of a woman, life has become the starting point for everything, grandma's confusion, a paradox from the beginning, the husband doesn't want what kind of life, he just wants to be " That kind of person".
This word is the theme that governs a woman's entire life, and every tentacle she exerts is born for this theme. Keep moving up, become a strong woman, become a housewife, become a CEO, and do A bus driver, a chef, a doctor and a teacher... just for a better life, for change and progress, for life. Maybe at birth, God did not give women any mission, just told them, go, go Enjoy the next day.
Stop asking guys what they want in life, all they want is a compliment.
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