Once, when I was a student, my roommates and I lay on the dormitory bed and imagined the future together. Which city did she go to, which university did she go to; what would her future boyfriend look like and what her character would be; what would her future child be named; what color would her wedding dress be. These beautiful visions keep us awake all night, as if we can graduate tomorrow and leave this ghost school tomorrow.
However, when I got to college, I realized that the social circle around me was completely different from that in high school. My classmates from all over the country communicated with each other, but the relationship with each other could only be maintained on the surface. Even if there is a heart-to-heart mentality, everyone communicates cautiously. Sure enough, when you grow up, you will be half into the society, and everyone will almost become a social person. This kind of mutual respect and love situation is good, but it always feels like something is missing.
I'm thinking about the days after work. If I work, I don't want to share a house with roommates. It's not that I don't like them, but the interpersonal relationship in today's society has not allowed me to be too close to my friends, because this may only bring more harm and disappointment to myself. I am afraid of losing, which is more terrible than having a friendship.
Suppose I share a room with another roommate. I have to understand her personality, eating habits, and I have to arrange cleaning tasks for the two of them. In some respects, the two of them have to agree. If she sometimes brings her boyfriend back for the night, I...it makes sense in itself, but maybe it affects my life as well. No one's life can't help but be influenced by the lives of others.
I still prefer to live alone, even if the house is small. I will keep a cat in my room to accompany me to study and live together. Sometimes I invite friends over to my house or cook a dinner together.
Life is still to look forward to, or you will forget it.
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