My friend suffered a domestic violence that day, but she didn't leave.

Deonte 2022-04-12 09:01:10

The moment when her mother turned to leave was her most charming moment. Even at the time, she wasn't sure where she could go with the suitcase, but at least she found herself and the courage to get out of the quagmire and face the misty future.

Half a month ago, my friend also suffered from domestic violence.

At 12:00 in the middle of the night, I received a call from her and asked if I could come to my house. Her husband reached out and hit her, bruising her neck.

And the day before, I attended her baby's hundred-day feast.

When I arrived at her house, she was tearfully asking her silent husband: Why did he do this to him?

I helped her pack and said to her: Let's go.

When she got in the car, she looked at her phone and said, "He didn't even say a word of retention."

I turned my head and looked at her in astonishment: Are you still expecting his retention? !

This is the second time I've been to her house late at night. The first time was the day after their wedding.

At the wedding, the man said: marry me, I will never let you be wronged in my life.

The next day, they started arguing over a trivial matter. The man pointed to her nose and said, "Get out, we'll get a divorce."

I pulled her and wanted to turn around and leave, and leave. It's a pity that this is not my marriage, she didn't come with me.

She just sat on the sofa and cried all the time. Maybe she hoped that the man would finally soften his heart, and remembered that he once held the girl in front of him in his palm. I stood for a long time, and finally left alone, and they reconciled.

My friend is not an ignorant woman and child. She has been a school tyrant since she was a child. She is also very handsome, but she doesn't like to dress up, a very simple and kind girl.

At that time, she had a bright future and could go to Switzerland to study for a Ph.D., but her mother objected, saying why girls read so many books, and they would not be able to marry when they were old. Later, she made a boyfriend, and her mother urged her to get married as soon as she was so old, instead of being picky.

She still called her mother the day after the domestic violence. In fact, it didn't surprise me. Her mother listed a lot of cases for her when she got married, and her husband often beat her up, but now she has a good relationship.

She asked me: what should I do?

I said: If it were me, the only way is to get divorced. My bottom line on marriage is domestic violence.

Too bad she's not me. She stayed at my house for a few days without any news of the man. She couldn't help calling to say divorce. Unexpectedly, the man agreed. She burst into tears and asked him, "Do you even want children? Do you miss her at all?"

She still went back. I didn't send her.

They haven't been in touch for many days, they should have reconciled.

I didn't mean to condemn her, and I didn't want to criticize her either. Life is so difficult, and I understand that she, a single mother, is full of panic about the unknown future. Maybe it will be easier to keep a broken marriage.

I have been watching the Thirteen Hairpins in Jinling these days, and there is a mention of Japan's fraudulent surrender plan. The Japanese said to the national army: As long as they surrender, the Japanese government will give preferential treatment to prisoners of war, and they will live without food and shelter. The national army was tempted, and there was a beautiful blueprint in front of surrender, but if they fought hard, they didn't know what the outcome would be, and the future was too dim to imagine.

Therefore, even if we live in a very bad environment, we are like frogs in warm water who dare not jump out of this iron pot that is not so hot, because the heat is still tolerable, but the world outside the pot is completely ignorant and dare not act rashly.

Chen Xiang cheated, Mao Xiaotong packed up and left home in the early morning, ending this four-year relationship.

Can't help but say that this girl is so handsome.

Of course cry too. Life is so hard and so bitter, who doesn't grit their teeth and endure it in a thousand ways. But anyway, please don't let this fucking life swallow your courage to start over.

Miss Xia's relationship has not been smooth recently. She said to me: If it had been a few years earlier, she would have broken up. And now, she didn't even dare to think about breaking up, she was afraid to start all over again.

I like a song very much. There is a lyric in it that says: Lend me ten years, and lend me the bravery of desperation.

I hope I myself, even if I am no longer young, don't lose the courage to leave.

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