Tovey plays Kevin, Pa's boss. Lator Tovey is an openly gay actor who has appeared in several gay dramas. He also contributed his perfect body in "Looking", and Li Che's next article will mainly focus on him. Richie's appearance coincides with Papa's emotional vacancy. At a certain period of time, Xiaopa chose Richie to fill the loneliness and weaken the emotional frustration deep in her heart, because the emotional frustration will directly extend to a person's total denial of himself. Filling or weakening is only temporary. If two people are to be together for a long time, there will be more problems to face. That's right, it was the first time that Papa and Richie met on the tram. Richie, who was full of confidence, took the initiative to tease Papa and Richie. . These gaps are doomed to two people not far away. When the two fell in love, Xiaopa joked that she thought Richie was not circumcised, and the wonderful Richie immediately turned around and left. The two ate breakfast together after having no T-mouth shots. Papa said that in fact, this kind of behavior is not 100% safe. The sensitive Richile got angry again. The first time the two had a big conflict, it was Papa and Richie who confirmed After the relationship, Xiaopa brought Richie into his circle of friends. In front of his friends, when Xiaopa introduced Richie, he added that he plans to open his own barber shop in the future. Just this sentence hurt the sensitive Richie. Because Richie is a nameless and no ideal barber. Papa's friend asks if Richie's hairdresser is your profession? Xiaopa felt a little embarrassed in face, and continued to round the field. Why did Xiaopa say that, because he thought from the bottom of his heart that Richie's current state was not worthy of him, and he was not worthy of joining his circle of friends. Why is R angry, because he saw his boyfriend inadvertently showing that he cares about the gap between the two. On the way home, Richie thinks her self-esteem has been hurt and starts to freak out. Papa apologized to Richie. In order to show sincerity, Papa wanted to bring Richie to see the two family members living together for a long time. Similar family background, cultural education, vision, values, etc. are very important. The difference is too great, and many problems cannot be effectively communicated. For the same question, I am happy to see you interpret it from different perspectives, but the different perspectives are also on the same level. If two people's le If the vel gap is too large, the way to deal with daily problems will be controversial. If there are more such disputes, it will drag down the love of two people. Don't tell me, life is one thing, love is one thing. Feelings are cultivated bit by bit in life. Papa found out that Richie took marijuana to her sister's wedding and felt it was inappropriate. Richie went into a rage again and left halfway. The 19th-century British writer Oscar Wilde, behind bars, wrote to his gay lover Douglas (Wilde nicknamed him "Percy") condemning: "The bond of all partnership, be it marriage or friendship, In the end, it all comes down to dialogue, and dialogue must have a common foundation, and between two people with great cultural differences, the common foundation can only be the lowest." Wilde's love with Douglas also ended in tragedy. I remember when I was studying before, I had contact with a boy for a while. He was studying in the Northeast. He was very nice and always gave me a warm feeling. I remember two things that impressed me a lot. Once the new semester started, I made a daily study plan. Reading, practicing English, learning Japanese, learning chess and other projects total about 5 hours a day. I sent him the study plan and he replied that he still needs to spend some time every day in his area of expertise. He was surprised when I told him that these 5 hours were in addition to the 6 hours of study in my major every day. During the winter vacation and the Spring Festival, I flew back to school in my third year of junior high school. He said that he couldn’t understand what he needed to work overtime during the Spring Festival. On the first floor, I saw my three senior brothers in the same major are busy with notebooks and a pile of documents. He didn't know that, just when I was leaving the library, I met two Yanyi junior sisters who were going to enter the library. Later, our relationship only stopped with WeChat friends. Someone asked me what I want my future boyfriend to be like? I replied, I don't want my future boyfriend and I to be in the same bed at night while I'm reading financial reports and he's watching Happy Camp. Xiaopa blamed her mother for the reason after her relationship failed. The values of blaming my mother have affected me, and I have used the same secular and powerful vision when choosing a mate. Every parent wants their children to be excellent, so for their children's future partners, parents expect the other party to be equally excellent, which is understandable. From an empirical point of view, perhaps the parents' experience has taught them that only the right lover can be happy. From a worldly point of view, parents have invested so much in their children that they have cultivated them so well. Don’t they have the right to ask their children’s spouse, another future family member, to be equally good? Richie has no ambitions in the play. Although Xiaopa's ambitions are not so ambitious, there is still a gap after all. Those who have pursuits have requirements not only for their careers, but also for their future partners. For those who have pursuit, they will feel tired on the way of pursuit. It's just at the moment when I'm tired, thinking about why I work so hard, it's better to find a mediocre person to accompany me, as long as he really loves me. But for those who are persistent in pursuit, the yearning for beautiful things, or the requirements for future life, has long been deeply rooted in the bone marrow. Life is a long stream, but the pursuit of ideals is also something that persists in the stream. Another point of view is that in foreign countries, the relationship between men and women is usually regarded as a relationship of mutual struggle and opposition, while in China, the relationship between the sexes is more regarded as a complementary relationship. One has a successful career, the other is well-mannered; one is mature and stable, the other is young and beautiful, one is outside and one is inside. Many people carry this pattern into gay love relationships. Leaving aside the question of whether the role of heterosexuality is appropriate, I think it is wrong to bring this role into the relationship. Jiyou love is two men in love after all. A same-sex love relationship should be one where two boys are attracted to each other, appreciate each other, and grow together. In the play, I can't see what kind of growth Richie can bring to Papa? At the end of the first season, when Papa and Kevin were on the right track, the wonderful Richie came to the male protagonist again and asked to get back together. Two people need to integrate with each other, but integration does not mean deliberate change, nor does it mean embarrassing oneself. When I learned in the second season that Richie was accompanying Xiaopa to her sister's wedding, she deliberately borrowed $200 to buy a suit. I was very moved, a little shocked, only to find that R loved Xiaopa so deeply. But in addition to being moved and shocked, there is also inexplicable sadness. It is normal to accompany your lover to an occasion, but in normal affairs, it is necessary for one party to borrow money and go into debt to complete it. The gap between the two can be imagined. It is also conceivable that in the future, in order to accompany Xiaopa to accomplish some of the most ordinary things, Richie will make it difficult for herself many times. Richie made it difficult for himself because of this relationship, and I think Papa won't be relieved after knowing it. In addition to being moved, I felt a little more guilt and guilt in my heart. Because he also embarrassed Richie, although this embarrassment was not deliberately done by himself, but caused by the different backgrounds of the two people. But a beautiful love, shouldn't it make each other relaxed and happy? If both parties are in trouble, what is the meaning of this relationship? Although the male lead in the film version of "Looking" is still with R in the end, I still don't like it. Gay love is not easy, so please don't embarrass yourself in love, and don't embarrass each other. A warm-hearted public account focusing on gay movies: Senior Li Che ID: CheLeeboys
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