Sometimes, I feel that my parents are really lacking, and the school is really complicated. This drama is really vivid.
It's useless because you can't communicate well and effectively with your children; it's useless because you don't really care about your children; it's useless when you live together for more than ten or twenty years, and you don't know your own children at all. I noticed the changes in my children at the first time, and I was busy; it was useless to always stand on my own point of view, stand on the point of view of adults, and use the work logic of daily affairs to make judgments.
But the most fundamental thing is that such parents are irresponsible and naive.
And school is not just a place for learning, but a place where reason and emotion grow out of sync. Sometimes reason comes first, sometimes emotion comes first. Before the self and the relationship between the self and the environment are not well understood, the unconscious emotions are basically prioritized.
The student years occupied almost the entire adolescence. The ignorant young boys and girls are sensitive, rebellious, and speechless. Maybe someone's words irritated you, but they don't know it, and they don't think it's okay. At this time, everyone has their own thoughts. Some are the same, some are different; some can laugh together, some can cry together; some can play together, and some play separately. Not everyone will like you; not everyone will hate you.
It is inevitable that there will be times when the solution cannot be resolved for a while, when I don’t understand it, and I feel that only by death, everything will be liberated and it will be fine.
But didn't the male protagonist hold the idea of "you can't commit suicide, you can't die" until the last moment, and he kept persuading the female protagonist not to commit suicide! But in the end, when I went to the agreed meeting place, when I didn't see the heroine at the appointed time, I felt that I had lost a person to talk to, a confidant, and my last spiritual support. I had a mental breakdown and fell into an emotional trough. When I didn't know what to do and felt that there was no way out, I took the drug. But he doesn't want to die! Didn't you hear him then lying on the ground struggling, crying "Mom! Mom!"! How much he wants the care of his family, how much he needs the care of his family! This also shows that young people in this period need the care of their families very much. But at this moment, the heroine saw the news, ran out of the long-lived room, rushed to the grass, and cried bitterly. Cry yourself, blame yourself. Originally, the male protagonist didn't want to die, but it was because of their previous agreement and because of her absence, which killed the desperate Dominic, and killed such a person who had been discouraging him from committing suicide. The regret in the heart, the grief, in which cry is the whole sentence!
so! The male protagonist Dominic, the female protagonist Sylvia, including everyone in the suicide space. It can be said that they should not really want to die. They're just looking for an exit, an exit that can solve the problem. Given their age and cognition at the time, the only way out now is suicide. Suicide is not like being killed, killed, or hit hard. It can be done at any time, anywhere, in any way, and ultimately ends one's life. At least, in the eyes of them at the time, it was something they could decide, and it was a solemn act.
However, in the eyes of parents, all this is childish behavior, but they don't know that this is sensitive, rebellious youth, as if they never had it. Natural children will not take the initiative to mention it to them, thinking that they can solve it, and feel that they are the best. But the more it is like this, the more it needs parents' care, parents' inquiries, parents' patience, and most importantly, parents' advice, parents' love, and self-knowledge.
All in all, I really like this movie, I really love it. Big push, recommended for teens, but also for parents.
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