After seeing half of it, I knew that many people would think the little girl was too stupid.
The facts are clear and stubbornly unbelievable, seeming paranoid and stupid.
However, I think there will always be someone like me who instantly understands that she is just a dying beast.
If that man just deceives himself;
if he has no love for himself at all;
if he really is a mean pervert;
if he hurts himself as everyone says;
then how stupid and ignorant I must be Will you believe his repeated lies? Do you think he is someone who really understands you? Will you always think that he is the special one?
I just "naively" believed every word he said, including those rhetoric about soulmate.
I went to the hotel so unprepared.
Not even a loud cry for help.
It all makes the tragedy seem entirely his own fault.
Despite the fact that I am the victim.
It is only because of the ridiculous trust in this world that I believe every word of strangers, believe in love, believe in uniqueness, believe in soul mates, and believe that people who are thousands of miles apart can meet.
Had it not been for the unfortunate encounter with a bad guy, this story would have ended completely differently.
Then I wouldn't be the victim of being accused and ridiculed.
I don't want to be the victim of stupidity and sadness, so I deny all harm.
Even excuse the criminals.
Even if it is clear in the bottom of my heart, I will deceive myself. Until the fact is bloody in front of me, will I force myself to face it, and then suffer deeper pain.
It's sad to be hurt.
But if you give others the opportunity to hurt yourself, then the pain will add endless regret, self-blame and self-denial.
It's strange, everyone thinks "simplicity", "kindness", "naivety", and "trusting others" are virtues, but why when this trust is given to the wrong person, they will collectively laugh at her for being "stupid", "Ignorance", "brainless", or even "deserving"?
To impose all the responsibility on the victim side, because they have the obligation to identify who should give their "trust" to whom and who should not give it to whom. It is paranoia and persecution paranoia to give it when it should be given, and it is stupid to give it when it should not be given. gullible without a brain.
However, not everyone sees the world and the vicissitudes of life from the very beginning. Many adults are inevitably deceived, not to mention a 14-year-old girl who is not familiar with the world. Who can guarantee that they will make the right choice every time?
It is clear that the victim is only hurt, and that the victim is the one who did the wrong thing and should be fully responsible, but there are always all kinds of criticism and accusations surrounding the victim in this world.
Are there really so many victims that people, including the victims themselves, can only forcefully develop a logic of condemning victims in order to gain a little more security?
It seems that as long as you do everything right, no one will hurt you.
Such as the father's anger at the beginning, such as the reaction of the father's colleagues in the company after hearing the facts.
"Has she been kidnapped?"
...
"I thought it was worse."
Is it only a simple and crude act against the victim's will that counts as harm?
Wouldn't it be harm to set a malicious trap to lure victims with impure rhetoric?
How can you tell which is worse?
By your own imagination?
Everyone once held the greatest kindness to the world until repeated injuries wiped out these kindnesses.
There is only one kind of heroism in this world, and that is to still love life after recognizing the truth of life.
Maybe we can't ask everyone to be a hero.
Maybe, we are all just ordinary people who want to protect themselves.
When it comes to the title of the film "Trust", I have to say that the word contains many layers of meaning in the film.
There is trust in strangers as well as trust in relatives.
The daughter once tried to communicate with her father about her adolescent troubles after a large-scale party, but the father ignored her daughter's confusion and helplessness. And "netizens" took advantage of it. From 16 years old to 20 years old, then to 25 years old, and finally an uncle in his 30s appeared. His daughter tolerated lies again and again and continued to give trust. In addition to ignorance, it was also because he was too eager for someone to understand him, respect him, and affirm See yourself as an independent, equal and thoughtful person.
This is the basic need of everyone. If you can't get it from your relatives, you will naturally seek it outside.
And people with ulterior motives also get the best cover and breakthrough.
After all, how many people who feel misunderstood can reject the so-called "soul mate" and "special existence" routine?
It can only be said that some people are too shrewd and too despicable.
After the incident, the father was like a frightened bird, and the daughter was trapped and fighting. Although they were the closest people, they were hurt by mutual mistrust.
See, strangers will hurt you with malice, but those who love you will hurt you in the name of love.
It seems that humans just can't stop the curse of hurting each other.
In other words, everyone has to learn to face all kinds of injuries from birth. In the hurt, we learn to grow, learn to be strong, learn how to love, and learn how to protect ourselves.
What the psychiatrist said to his father was right.
We can't protect our loved ones forever, because that might also mean control.
And everyone is an independent individual, and they will all face the journey of life alone in the end.
The so-called love does not mean protection at all times, but to accompany each other, support each other, and become each other's strongest backing.
Knowing that there is always someone behind you, you can be bolder and more free to fly to unknown distances.
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