Compared with Scarlett Johansson, the latter's sexy and charming will fade after watching a few times. She and Portman co-starred in "Another Boleyn Girl", although not very satisfactory, but the two The difference in temperament has been clearly shown through the characters in the play. Natalie Portman is calm, shrewd and even charming. The rich connotation behind it is really fascinating. Because of curiosity, I always want to dig it out. And all the beauty of Scarlett Johansson is only superficial, we will not have any other feeling except sighing at the miracle of the Creator, who actually created this stunner.
A bit too far, back to the topic.
When I watched this movie, I liked the matcha color from the very beginning. The matcha color is clean, cool, and a little warm. This color gives me such a feeling. The matcha-colored walls that frequently appeared in the film in the future created such a feeling unconsciously, and the tone of the film was indeed clean, cool, and a little warm.
This is actually a story of self-redemption.
Portman plays the third child, who integrates into her husband's family and struggles with the grief of the bereaved daughter. A mistress who intervenes in other people’s families is naturally hated, and the price of it is the difficulty of getting in with the other’s family. Most foreigners are alienated from their parents, so the mistress mainly has to deal with her husband’s son. It's a pity that our little three has always been cold and cold due to the shadow of childhood, and there is not much affinity. She doesn't know how to build a relationship with children, and it is estimated that she has rarely communicated with children before, and she is not interested in them. She doesn't know how a child's psychology is, and she seems clumsy when it comes to pleasing children. She consciously restrains her edge but still shows it from time to time. Children's hearts are sensitive and insensitive, but when it comes to stepmothers, all children are sensitive. They can capture the subtle words in countless conversations and deny her, or even just feel that the aura is incompatible at first. Since then I have been disgusted. So things get laborious.
Our little three, when his father cheated on him and hung out with strippers when he was a child, he was finally expelled by his mother. If it is the first knife in the child's heart at this time, then the father's failure to fight is the second knife. And another point that the film doesn't show is that if the father doesn't repent and refuses to admit it, and even insists on his own way, it will hurt much more than the fact of cheating.
And children who have been hurt in this way may show indifference when they grow up, they will lack affinity, ego, and even conceit. Just like the three in the movie. On the surface, this has nothing to do with the infidelity of his father in childhood, but in fact, it is the result of far-reaching consequences - insecurity and warmth. If a person has enough sense of security, he will unconsciously give others a sense of security, and if a person feels warm, he will also unconsciously warm others. It's a give-and-feedback relationship. On the contrary, if a person has a deep sense of instability in his heart, if a person lacks warmth for a long time, he will unconsciously demand this sense of security and warmth from others. What it shows is that he unconsciously finds a man who looks like his father, and unconsciously is harsh to those close to him. The little three in the film is looking for a "father". The man, like her father, was seduced by another woman, but after reorganizing the family, he could not handle the relationship between his ex-wife, current wife and children. A terrible husband and father. The difference is that this father-like man will not leave himself, and will always protect himself and satisfy his demands. This is a "compensation". What he couldn't get from his father, he got from this man. Therefore, our little three is always strong and decisive in the film, and has his own ideas. The fatal thing is that such a man also has the flaws of his father. Once he falls into no solution and feels frustrated, when he begins to doubt this relationship, he will retreat and not fight for it. He is as irresponsible as his father, which makes people Not feeling safe.
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When our little three is in pain, when she deliberately or uncontrollably says something she shouldn't say because of this great pain, we can see that no one can be trusted. The husband, who once thought he could rely on him, began to question his relationship with her, whether it was as he thought, and more importantly, whether it was worth it. It seems that when a man cheats and encounters trouble that he can't solve by himself, he will start to think about this problem. In other words, they start to protect themselves. When they are hesitant and unable to make a choice, they start to withdraw and escape. They are like children, but at the same time they don't really know their women. When our mistress released her pain, her husband couldn't understand it at all. We didn't see anything other than accusation and giving up. As everyone knows, the reason for releasing her pain is because she cannot digest it herself. Our little three tried hard, but she still couldn't digest it. When the pain was about to crush her, she couldn't help releasing it. She said those things she shouldn't have said, and revealed her hard work to hide her sharp edge, because she was in too much pain! Even if she did it on purpose, there was nothing she could do. This was when she was the strongest and most vulnerable on the surface, and her husband, not only couldn't help her solve it, but also didn't stay by her side. He just blamed her, disappointed her, questioned her and their relationship.
However, originally, the husband did not have this obligation to resolve and accompany him, and no one had this obligation. Everything can only depend on oneself. In the end, people can only rely on themselves to achieve inner peace. All we have is always only ourselves, as we were born and as we die. What a sad truth this is. But, sooner or later, we will recognize it and accept it. Only by accepting it can we give up our delusions of relying on others, and we can stop constantly looking for someone to rely on. We begin to focus on building up our hearts, and through long hours and journeys we have come to peace silently, a true eternal peace.
And as smart as Natalie Portman, as smart as our junior, has already understood all this, so there is a happy ending at the end, even if the man who eats back after his woman changes is not so popular.
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