Getting married in love, confused in marriage, moving forward in confusion

Nicole 2022-03-27 09:01:12

They are the most perfect couple: college sweethearts who started their love affair, married without any suspense after graduation, calm, honest, not good at lying, successful in career, beautiful, smart, straightforward, and a freelance writer; they go to parties together , she integrates into his circle of friends, he often speaks love to her, and when there is a conflict, he will cook delicious food to please her, she will smile and tacitly take the water, turn anger into joy in the delicious food, Snuggle up like all the familiar nights and fall asleep peacefully. Everything seemed so peaceful, but something was missing. He was always too serious, his tone didn't fluctuate, and when he talked about love, it was like a routine. Faced with her protruding figure, his eyes didn't stop, but when he was pleasing, he seemed to be patient. , likes to look for charging plugs in the stack of books, but she doesn't know that there are photos hidden in her books, maybe she will never touch the stack of books except for charging... She doesn't care about the image in front of him, attending his company party, he In a suit and leather shoes, she didn't even wear a bra, her white vest was exposed outside her sweater, she put on make-up casually in the taxi, and tied a normal ponytail, and their chats along the way were boring...

Maybe you would say that all couples end up like this: less talk, less eyes, less passion, but more familiarity with each other, reliance on each other, she knows the details of his work, and is familiar with the unnatural look on his face when he lies. As for him, he can detect the changes in her emotions and is familiar with her living habits. This is the way an "old husband and wife" love each other. until……

As soon as he arrived at the party, he couldn't wait to find the second girl. In the camera, he and the second girl seemed to get along very well. He couldn't take his eyes off the second girl and smiled. He liked to pick up every word of the second girl. , the proposal of the second female drinker could not be refused.

And what about her? Hid the photo of the second male, couldn’t control myself to send emails to the second male, and faced the sudden appearance of the second male, I was very upset, so I dressed up carefully before the date (finally put on a bra and picked it out), talking about the male The second's girlfriend will feel sad, and the second boy's intimacy seems to have never been separated.

It's not that they don't have passion, they just give it to others...

He loves the new and she loves the old

No matter how peaceful the solution was, it didn't stop him from throwing the second daughter on the bed. He hesitated again and again, and even wanted to stop himself by calling her, but she happened to have her heart and eyes on another person.

Why is this happening?

The breakup when they graduated, even though they got married, their emotions have changed. They have different tastes and hobbies, but they are both cautious and afraid of life mistakes. Choosing each other and not giving up this marriage is the result of rational judgment. But a good choice doesn't mean happiness, and happiness doesn't mean being able to refuse temptation. There's nowhere to susten your passion. The charming second girl and the suave boy can make up for the throbbing that they can't give as a perfect couple.

In order to shake the views of Mike (the male protagonist) about marriage, temptation, love, loyalty, and betrayal, the second female did not persuade herself over and over again? Several times he wanted to open his mouth to refuse, several times to turn around and leave, but in the end he stayed, and finally the two naked bodies met, and finally he satisfied his own fleshly desires.

She rejected the second male, but what's the difference? Her heart has been derailed, heartbroken when parting, sweet smirk when recalling, staring out of the window in despair

At the end of the shot, he hugged her with guilt and said "I love you", but she couldn't respond to him. Of course, from the beginning to the end of the movie, she never said that she loved him.

Will those midnight purple satin pumps with diamonds reveal the truth?

He loves her, but she betrays her, she doesn't betray him, but she doesn't necessarily love him.

Is this a story about betrayal? Is it a story about true love and marriage? Or is it a story of betrayal by following the heart, or betrayal by surrendering to the body?

Maybe, but more should be more than that.

Because they were separated when they were most in love, and they were nostalgic because they were not exhausted, the love between her and the second man was actually the same as the one-night passion between him and the second woman. The passion is always temporary, whether it is emotional or sensual. . Passion is also forever, it can’t be filled, it can’t be used up, like a leek, one stubble, another stubble, grows wildly when you are not satisfied, sleepless nights, quarrels and tears.

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Last Night quotes

  • Joanna Reed: What I wouldn't have given to have tired of you.

  • Joanna Reed: In the middle of most nights, when I can't sleep I still replay you