Because of being excluded and discriminated against by the mainstream society, GAYs need to face their true self more bravely, including sexual orientation accompanied by the difficulties of life. In fact, human beings have a natural fear of aliens that are different from themselves. This is an instinct and cannot be measured by right or wrong. Humans are inherently lonely in the universe. We don’t know if there are other creatures like us, not to mention ourselves. There are all kinds of infinite possibilities, including GAY, which is just one of the anomalies. Most people are homophobic. The fear is because of the disgust for loneliness. People are so arrogant and dislike being different from themselves. It seems like nature, but it shows the stupid side of human beings. In fact, as Brian said in QAF, unless I want to fuck you, it has nothing to do with you if I am GAY!
I admired the first CP's performance out of curiosity, only to realize that IM in Shameless is too immature, because it is a branch line that is not delicate enough, not to mention that the two people who play IM are originally straight men, there is no harm if there is no comparison. I didn't watch BJ, I thought they had done a good job. After watching BJ, I realized that sexuality is not a matter of acting, it's innate, and a look betrays whether you really love someone of the same kind. Although BJ's actors are straight and curved, I don't know why the chemistry between the two is so explosive. So I firmly believe that Randy who played J really loved Gale who played B. After five years of rubbing each other's ears and temples, it is impossible to leave nothing, excluding those passionate scenes that are bloody or lingering, and only watch those direct or indirect scenes. I knew that Randy looked at Gale with focused and affectionate eyes. After watching it for five years in a row, he pretended that there would be true feelings in it. Gale is a straight man, but facing a beautiful person like Randy, does it matter whether he is a man or a woman? The affection he gave to R must be equal. As for whether they have been together, only they themselves know. Besides, love or not love must be together? Does it have to be publicly acknowledged? Do you have to stay together for a long time? If this is the case, then the true love that QAF conveys from beginning to end does not need rings and commitments, you really don't understand.
Of course, the reason why QAF looks good is not only because of BJ, but also because of limited patience. Except for the key points, some of them are just swept away, but the theme is that the name of this drama is the same, comrades are mortals, everyone Ordinary people, even if they have different sexual orientations, their emotions are the same, and there are a lot of firewood, rice, oil, and salt. No one can escape who they should worry about. Even God B was once faced with the danger of unemployment. If you want to consolidate your position, don't expect others. The love between the two is the story of the overbearing president and the little white rabbit growing up, as the saying goes. These can be applied to the opposite sex, but this is absolutely necessary, which proves that human feelings are the same, as long as it is true love, no matter what gender it is All are worth having.
If you want to say which character is my favorite, of course it is God B, so arrogant and mad, galloping on the way to send J to school, with graffiti sprayed on the car with "Fuck", I don't know how to be low-key, that's how flamboyant Ao, who do you love, I'm just like this, isn't it pleasing to the eye? I need you pleasing to the eye! I just like men! none of your business! That's why I like the end of the first episode of the first season the most. The clamoring B is so attractive. This is what everyone on Liberty Avenue wants to get GAY.
I fully understand why J would stop at nothing to stay by B's side, give everything, and bravely follow B's footsteps, he said that he saw the face of God, his name is Brian kinney, that is the belief of young J, when you put love When a person believes, all suffering becomes insignificant, and all costs become the due payment for the realization of good wishes, with no complaints and no regrets. I admire J, a 17-year-old man of tricks, the first time it was painful and happy, and then I haunted B fearlessly and without regret, using my high IQ, high EQ and pure heart, breaking down B's solid barriers little by little, little by little Infiltrated into B's heart, and finally became the only one who filled B's entire heart. As B said at the end, J finally became the best GAY.
The two have grown up with each other. B knew love and felt the warmth it brought him. He no longer looked at the world coldly. He knew that sometimes he had to sacrifice everything for his beliefs. This was taught to him by J. He knew to say thank you and accept others' Help, admit your fragility, and gradually realize that love is the meaning of life, no longer stubbornly die in the glory of youth, and noble aging is a life of calm, without J, although he is a god B, he has less human touch, less Fireworks, such a person can only look up, but it will not make people love and hate, and it will not make people unforgettable. And J was led by B to a reality that he would not be exposed to at his age, taught him how to control his emotions, how to face the cruelty of reality, how to be a strong man, how to make choices in his life, and more What is his love. The two influence each other, grow up with each other, are inseparable from each other and are both excellent and powerful.
I believe that B and J both fell in love with each other at first sight, but behind the love at first sight, one didn't take it seriously at all, and the other was determined to stay together, and only then did J slowly break B's stubborn belief and rebuild it. I also like the first three seasons the most. There is no major conflict in the logic in it, and everything happens naturally and logically. In the 4th and 5th seasons, these two people went astray. There are some parts to watch in the 4th season. In the 5th season, I have no idea why the screenwriter keeps repeating this. B has always cherished J very much. How could he blurt out that syphilis may be you? This kind of words that contagious me, my God, are too horrible to watch. I'm always jumping at those episodes.
I don't know if B and J are the last love in this life, but it must be the only one. J said that B is his destination. In fact, it does not mean that he will definitely return to B's side. It is impossible for him to return to B's side. The important thing is that love is not defined by being together. If it is just for being together, M can do it. What B wants is not these, he wants a soul mate in this life, what he wants is that I understand you, not just that I love you.
They all say that B is promiscuous and uses fuck to express their emotions. I'm not a man, and I'm not gay. But I fully understand that B is the only way to prove that he is alive through this kind of sensual satisfaction. Countless orgasms prove that he is young and charming. Everyone wants to satisfy the physical needs of my fuck, why not? If it is said that the lack of love in the original family makes B's three views stay in his own beliefs, it makes perfect sense. No one loves him, and he will not love anyone. In fact, the opposite is said in the play, not him No, he can't. Before he met J, he didn't have the ability at all. He could only control others, but never fall in love. The way he expresses his emotions is to constantly fuck to satisfy the emptiness in his heart. His heart is so cold, and only the body temperature when he is having sex with others can warm him up. Besides, he has the capital to play the world, and he disdains all living beings who only talk about sex and not love. He has seen too many hypocrisy, only the desires of people are real during the fuck, the heat under him is real, the momentary climax is real, this is the truth that he can judge, and love is too illusory, too ethereal , too uncontrollable, since childhood he did not have the perception of love, how do you let him love. J said he was honest, and that's why he lived too real and wanted too pure. From the beginning, J has not allowed others to speak ill of B because he understands.
As for why he has to fuck around when he falls in love with J, the reason is a sense of security. People have a habit of relying on the beliefs formed since childhood. He is actually very fragile. Charm, achievement, money, status, and even worship him There is no shortage of them. What he lacks is understanding and love, and this is what he wants most in his heart. It’s not that he doesn’t want to be incompetent. He also knows where his problems are, but knowing and being able to solve them are two different things. He only needs to start to realize After breaking away from his own beliefs, he returned to the original track and continued to find a sense of security in the fuck. As long as he began to realize that J was important to him, he was not confident. The reason he was not confident was because he loved J. The truth was so cruel and contradictory. The kind of one-on-one relationship, the only sex, and the only way to stay together, I don't know if B will collapse in the future, or if it will drive herself crazy, so J will stay with each other even though they are at home and their children are around their knees. Lao is looking forward to it, very persistent, but he also understands B's point very well, so he won't let B sacrifice the last bit of self and become what he expects. He really understands B, this is true love.
As for the ending, it's not a happy reunion, I can understand. Just like the IM of the Shameless, they didn't get together in the end. In the final analysis, they should fulfill each other. Foreigners may indeed not recognize sacrifice, but I believe that the connection of human emotions should all recognize that the love that fulfills each other is eternal. The belief that you hold on to, sacrifice your dreams, and even sacrifice your life to be together is true love? At least B and J in QAF don't think so, they have transcended gender, transcended sex, transcended time, transcended space, and reached the height of mutual understanding and mutual fulfillment, lifelong soul mates, is it fundamental to be together? It's not the most important thing, what B wanted from J was never a relationship like being together, I still understand that.
Whether they are separated or parted, one is 22 years old and the other is 34 years old, neither of them will reach the end of their lives, they are still young, who knows what the future will look like. It is said that B understands human nature, which is true, so he said, maybe next week, maybe next year, maybe never, it doesn't matter, it's just time. Time can bury everything, and it can also have infinite possibilities. The person you love now may not be the person you will love in the future. During the five years of love, the two have grown. Not only has J become the best GAY, but B has also become a flesh-and-blood person, instead of a god who is aloof and emotionless. Even if two people fall in love with others in the future, it is normal. I have always believed in love, not human nature. B is still J's belief. He loves B with no regrets. In the future, he will continue to grow and become stronger. Even if he is accompanied by others, B will always belong to his heart. And whether B continues to fuck around or falls in love with someone else in the future, I am happy for him, because J is his redemption, he has become able to love, knows how to love people, knows how to give, and has warmth in his heart. How good this ending is, it should not be defined by joy or sorrow, it is very realistic and beautiful, not perfect but no regrets.
Extending the reality of Randy and Gale, I always believe that they have fallen in love, no matter whether that love is related to sex, ambiguous or indescribable, it must have existed. If you understand the relationship between B and J, you will not be entangled in their ending, let alone whether R/G has loved in reality. Love is love, and true love does not need rings and commitments to prove it.
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