No love, no identity.
Although the definition of "perfect" can be different, there will be n kinds of production lines to produce different "perfect".
But extreme perfection is a machine. machine, robot.
Just a different model of robot.
Human's ultimate goal is to become the perfect robot?
Sounds good?
After discussing human beings' obsession with perfection, let's discuss why human beings want perfection?
Behind "perfect" is naked selfishness.
You want your ideal to be realized in the other person, so as to bring you pleasant enjoyment.
Whether it is love at first sight or love at first sight, a lot of love is caused by the ideal image in the fantasy.
Do you love each other? Or because of the fantasies brought about by the other party?
Just like the success of entertainment stars, it is often attributed to the infinite fantasies of fans and the masses.
Give you an image of a beautiful woman, and automatically make up your mind to be kind and lovely, and not eat human fireworks, balabala (the fill-in-the-blank option after that depends on the fantasies of the fantasist),
give you a handsome guy, and automatically make up your own Prince Charming.
Fiction takes a little more imagination to bring yourself into the characters in it.
The so-called pleasure comes from this, which produces an economic effect.
Ideal is the primary productive force, but people are not born to imagine.
There is no realistic support, no literature, art, music, film and television. There is no source of imagination.
Extreme selfishness can obliterate the existence of others and the self. Think about it, the other party needs you because of your "perfection"? Or because you are a natural being.
Selfishness is to have you and make him proud. and feel inflated. Because you are so perfect and ideal.
Fortunately, human perfection is far from only incomplete perfection.
Healthy love is when you realize that the other person has shortcomings, you can choose to tolerate him and continue the relationship.
Instead of always loving only the perfect performance that pretends to be perfect for your desires.
Love that evolves in conflict and tolerance is worthy of being called love.
Otherwise just utterly selfish.
Completely selfish.
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