The film is a blatant yet serious exploration of 'sex' and 'sexual fetishes'

Aaliyah 2022-09-20 00:22:16

This article is originally from Movie Paradise, the official account of Movie Paradise: dianyingnews


not long ago saw someone initiate such a topic:

I want to know everyone's [sexual fetish], what kind of characteristics the other party has or what kind of actions they do will make you fall, immediately Soft legs?

In fact, the original intention of the questioner is very pure (to be verified), just want to know what the other person looks like or what kind of character is the most attractive to you.

As a result, the comment area started the car with the word [sexuality] and drove all the way to the highway. Really every comment is a super-sized yellow text.

Among them,

some people like to lick, some like to abuse, some like each other, some like to dominate, some like to be gentle, some like to be rough...

In short, [sexual hobbies] are different, even if they like licking, the licking part is different. vary.

Why do you suddenly mention [sexual fetish], because the film "Sexual Matters of Love" that I am going to talk about today seriously discusses the different sexual fetishes between five couples.


First, Paul & Maeve,

who have been together for six years and are currently living together but not married.

Paul's hobby during sex is licking his feet. This hobby is shared by many people and is not special.


Special is the hobby of girlfriend Maeve.

She is masochistic.

That is, the habit of enjoying sexual pleasure in the midst of humiliation and pain.

She said to Paul, "I want you to rape me! I don't need to know when or where, it's up to you. I just want to feel a little panic and fear during sex.

" accepted.


Dan & Evie,

married for a few years, lost their passion, had a discordant sex life, and drifted away from each other.


They consulted with an emotional expert, who concluded that the pair lacked communication and suggested that they try role-playing.

Role-playing fetish, enhance sexual interest through role-playing.

The two tried role-playing that night, and then found their long-lost passion.

It's just that the man is obsessed with role-playing.


Richard & Rowena,

after they got married, they always wanted to have their own children, but the two people with normal fertility have worked hard for three years to no avail.

The doctor told his wife that her inability to conceive was likely related to her inability to orgasm during sex.

One day, his husband's father died, and he, as a son, burst into tears.

When she saw her husband cry, she developed a super sexual desire that she had never had before.

Also known as crying fetish, the habit of seeing other people cry will produce sexual pleasure.


Phil & Maureen,

husband Phil has a sleeping habit, referring to the habit of getting sexual satisfaction by watching others sleep.

Therefore, he often touches and kisses his wife while she is sleeping.

Even, in order to prevent his wife from waking up halfway, he secretly gave her sleeping pills.


Monica & Sam,

Monica is a video interpreter for the deaf, helping the deaf to call another person through video with the deaf.

Sam is deaf and an illustrator with a phone fetish.

Phone fetishes, the fetish for sexual gratification through obscene phone calls from strangers.


So, the plot evolved like this.

A deaf-mute illustrator otaku called a video hotline for deaf-mute people and asked a female operator to make a call to a prostitute who specialized in telephone pornography services, and asked the female operator to help him translate the sexual demands to the prostitute and then convey them in sign language Sex descriptions of prostitutes to cool yourself off.

As a result, in a hilarious embarrassment, the two had a subtle spark of pure love.



Despite the sheer scale of the phone call, Monica and Sam are definitely a breath of fresh air in the five-person relationship. Watching them interact, I seem to have experienced a sweet and shy first love again.


Influenced by the traditional and implicit culture, many people still think that


love is great and noble, while sex is vulgar and cannot be on the table. Talking about sex in an upright manner will be considered by some people to be lewd and indiscreet. .

It can be called [talking about sexual discoloration].

And [sexuality] is even more despised.

Even couples and lovers are difficult to be honest with each other.

Therefore, there are lies and deceptions over and over again.


Rowena likes to watch her husband cry, because tears can make her sexual.

Therefore,

she always mentioned her father-in-law who had just passed away in front of her husband, prepared onions for three meals a day, and even secretly sent the family dog ​​to a friend's house to send samples, just to make her husband cry.

After her husband found out about her abnormality, she was hard to explain her sexuality and lied again that she had cancer.


Phil loves touching and kissing his sleeping wife, and also likes to make up and buy new clothes for his sleeping wife.

And the wives who are sober have no idea about these things.

So, when she found out that her husband was spending huge sums of money on women's clothes and cosmetics, her first reaction was that her husband was having an affair.

Phil thought about telling his wife about his hobbies, but in the end he just said, "Okay, I did have an affair."

He was afraid that his wife would know, and he felt that she would not understand.


"Sexual Matters of Love" seems to be a sexual comedy, but in fact, it starts with special hobbies and explores the relationship between marriage, love and sex, and the importance of communication.

A marriage without love or sex is an incomplete marriage.

Dan and Evie had a marital crisis because of a discordant sexual relationship, so they accepted the doctor's advice for role-playing.

Later, the husband became too addicted to role-playing, and the wife couldn't help roaring:

"What is the purpose of our role-playing?"

"For sex."

"It's for our marriage!"


Richard and Rowena have been trying for three years without getting pregnant because they do it every day, but a lot of the time it's not love, it's just sex for having a baby.

There is one detail in the film that is funny and a little sad.

The wife came home from get off work to find her husband masturbating in the bedroom.

In order not to waste sperm, the husband made his wife sit directly on top of him, and then made his wife lie on the bed with a pillow under her waist.

All this is for conception.


The film tells a total of five couples (husbands and wives) relationships, each of which is an independent and complete story, and the ending of each story is both happy and sad.

"Those who communicated honestly got a good end, and those who lied and deceived fell apart." On

the surface, their relationship seemed to be strained by sexual habit, but the bottom line was a lack of correct and effective communication.


Phil has a sleeping fetish, and he prefers his sleeping wife.

Because,

"She's gentler than you, she doesn't yell at me, she doesn't call me an idiot, she doesn't shut me up all day long. She listens, she makes me feel like I'm not the one who gets in the way of her happy life. People."

He was not good at talking, and she was even less good at listening, and their ten-year marriage could only end in silence and contradictions.


Sometimes it's really good to speak up.

People often say that "silence is golden", but in a marriage relationship, the word "silence" is the most taboo.

Silence in marriage is a chronic poison, destroying your relationship little by little, and finally turning each other into "the most familiar strangers".

Do you still remember

the moonlit ocean outside the window

? It

was love that made each other light up the night .

Why did we replace our dependence with silence and

become the most familiar strangers in the world

——Xiao Yaxuan "The Most Familiar Stranger"


It is highly recommended for couples or couples to watch the film together, it not only helps to enhance the relationship, but also helps to enhance mutual understanding, and also has a healing effect on couples who have fallen into unhappy marriages and sexual imprisonment.

Finally, about [sex] and [sexual hobbies].

To be honest, I personally accept incompetence for some sexual fetishes, such as toe licking.

However, the principle I have always adhered to is that as long as his behavior does not violate discipline, does not break the law, does not threaten or harm other people's personal and property, and most importantly does not impose his own ideas on others, then I will respect him very much Likes, and will not judge his behavior.

After all, what other people like is their freedom, and it has nothing to do with me.

As for sex, I sincerely hope that adults can stop talking about sex, let alone see sex as a symbol of chastity.

After all, it is now 2016, the Qing Dynasty has been dead for more than a hundred years, and homosexuality is allowed to get married in many countries and regions. Why can't you get rid of the shackles of chastity?

Rape incidents occur frequently, and most of them are temporary crimes. It is basically impossible to eradicate them.

What we can do, apart from taking precautions, is to change our attitudes towards rape victims.

French philosopher Michel Foucault once said that there is no essential difference between being raped and being beaten, both are physical injuries to the human body.

Dare you say the sex organs are more important than the head?

So, why do you only get angry when someone hits you hard on the head, and when someone rapes you, you will be ashamed to live and die.

You might argue that sexual acts against one's will or coercion often inflict mental damage to a partner and reputational damage more than mental.

After all, it's not your deep-rooted concept of chastity that is at work.

If we can get out of the shackles of chastity, I believe that the suicide rate of rape victims will be greatly reduced.

Of course,

for those who sexually abuse young children, I would like to be chemically castrated. (There are online resources at station B)

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Extended Reading

The Little Death quotes

  • Evie: [Interrupting Dan watching TV, after shutting it off] I love you.

    Dan: How is that important? Give me the remote.

  • Dan: Your blowjobs... aren't... very... good.

    Evie: They're not... They're not that bad.

    Dan: They are.

    Evie: Well, you remember the last time you went down on me, Dan? 'Cause I don't.