Does BoJack really like Diane or does he think he should like Diane?

Alex 2022-09-08 20:13:22

There are many kinds of personalities, and it is impossible to cover all of a person with one personality. But if I have to make a mandatory classification, I should belong to Zoe's kind of people. This kind of people is actually very contradictory. They think that everyone will be lonely, so they should enjoy the feeling of loneliness, but in fact they are afraid of loneliness. It's just that I can't get out of my loneliness, I'm afraid of losing, and my self-efficacy comes to the conclusion that I'm suitable for loneliness. In fact, no one wants to do this. Humans are social animals.

BoJack put down his guard against Diane, and felt that Diane and himself were a kind of person who could understand each other, and then began to feel that he could not be separated from her and that he liked her. In fact, maybe you don't even know what love is, you become addicted and depraved after pursuing fruitless pursuits, and then you even think that you are giving up on yourself because you love too much. I have always been in favor of the way that in addition to motives leading behaviors, there are also motives that explain behaviors, that is, behaviors first, and then thinking about motives to make a reasonable explanation for their behaviors. Therefore, Ma Nan didn't like Di An, but was afraid that he could not be separated from someone who knew him. Because of his inseparability, he understood that he liked Di An.

People with two personalities, Zoe and Zelda, are actually easier to get along with for a long time. From this, a question arises, whether we should find someone who understands ourselves or someone who can make up for each other.

Interlude: At the end of episode 11, when Ma Nan was frank and only wanted to get Diane's affirmation, he was probably admitting that he was a failure, but he still wanted people who knew him to see that he had a sincere side in his hypocritical life. .

The part where BoJack wants to get the forgiveness of his young friend (forgot his name) is probably the most poisonous chicken soup in the whole show, no matter how hard you try to save it, whether it's genuine guilt or to make your heart feel better, you can't do it , can only live in the shadow of guilt for a lifetime.

I still hate BoJack Horseman as much as I sometimes hate myself.

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