When watching this movie, you can't be misled by the movie name to see the place about the father-daughter relationship. Although the director also showed a lot of warm places between father and daughter, this is not the point. The point is to understand Katie's life and try his best to to understand her.
My favorite of all the posters is the one released in Korea. Unlike other posters, the melancholy Katie above is melancholy because of the trauma she suffered as a child.
Since the movie is divided into three parts, let’s divide it into three parts.
The first part is the story of my father and Katie. This part is more like the description of family affection in "When Happiness Comes Knocking". All the places that are widely described by publicity only exist in this part, which will invisibly cause many viewers to suffer. barriers to understanding film.
The movie starts with a quarrel between mom and dad. Mom thinks dad is having an affair with someone else. Talking about these things when her daughter is sitting in the back seat of the car on the way home shows the unhappiness of the family, or this kind of unhappiness. It had a profound impact on her daughter. As a result, she had a car accident and her father felt very guilty for killing his wife. He developed epilepsy. Katie was left alone at her aunt's house for a few months because her father was going to see a doctor, and her
father was discharged from the hospital. Later, although the economic conditions were not very good, he was very fond of his daughter. Later, because of the poor writing of the first book and the incurable epilepsy, and the aunt's lawsuit against him for Katie's custody, the father was very busy, although the book he wrote. Almost everything I wrote for Katie was for Katie, but I ignored Katie's feelings.
When I really found out that Katie was unhappy and planned to love her daughter again, she passed away because of a seizure. At this time Katie died. Losing her parents at a very young age can imagine how hard it was for Katie. The most emotional part was when Katie said "You are my photochip." to her father's coffin.
This is Katie's childhood. Childhood plays a key role in shaping a person's character. The latter two parts are a manifestation and the root is in the first part. Katie lacked love since she was a child, and every time her father planned to love her well, she would lose the love that should belong to her.
The second part, the story of Katie and an autistic girl, this part is a transitional one, using a little girl to connect with her childhood, and at the same time connect with Katie who has grown up, a switch between the two scenes Bridge, and faintly reveal some information so that the audience can better understand the movie.
When Katie grew up, she studied psychology and engaged in a career in psychological counseling. Generally speaking, most people who study psychology think that they have a problem and see if they can heal themselves, so Katie knows that she has some problems. And she knew where her problem was. When the counselor asked her, she said "I don't love." But I loved her father a long time ago, but her father left. Having sex can make her feel something. And usually there is nothing She is very empty like a dry well with nothing.
In the process of getting along with the little girl, she loves her as much as possible like her father, because this girl is very similar to herself and lacks love. She can understand her very well, such as teaching the little girl to ride a bicycle.
The third part, Katie's love experience, this part is the most important part and the most difficult to understand. Many people said that they couldn't understand Katie and even thought Katie was a bitch. Several meanings ridicule their own little knowledge.
Like Katie said before, if she meets someone she wants to love, she will probably make him regret falling in love with her. She will just find a guy to have sex as a workout because she doesn't have time to exercise today. Everyone in the bar thinks she is A bitch who can be casually fucked, her boyfriend really loves her and at the same time is very tolerant of her. When she feels sorry for her boyfriend, her boyfriend will tell her that it's okay, you can see that she really loves her boyfriend, She was trying to make a change, but when her boyfriend took her to see her parents, she turned around and left,
Her boyfriend began to doubt, wondering if it was true love or just for fun. When she told him it wasn't for fun, he would immediately apologize. She didn't mean it, she didn't mean it, she just couldn't do it despite her efforts. Still can't, she doesn't know how to love. She won't be one's girlfriend. She can't establish an intimate relationship. Her boyfriend knows her childhood and understands everything she has. Only then can he be so tolerant of her, give her time to let her slow down Come on,
he told her that not everyone who loves you will leave you. She knows it very well in her head, but emotionally she still can't accept it. She is afraid that she can't keep her love. She can't control herself. When her boyfriend goes to work and leaves her She was empty when she was alone, she couldn't help but find someone to sleep with, she knew it was wrong, but she wanted to release that emptiness, but she found that the emptiness that could be filled in the past actually made her feel uncomfortable. She felt even more empty, she had no pleasure in holding her tears, she was confused and didn't know what was going on, she was stunned and didn't have the mind to clean up the traces, and then his boyfriend broke out and it was normal. Who can bear this cuckold thing? , he can endure for so long, I think he is already very powerful, so I can praise him well. This quarrel is super exciting. This is what made me cry. He gave her all his love, and she loved him very much. She was just afraid that she couldn't help but be afraid. She left, and then she didn't sleep all day and night. After thinking about it, she
planned to live like before, dress up as a coquettish bitch and go to the bar. Wouldn't it feel better to pretend that he never came,
but when I heard that song When she sang, she knew that she loved him, she couldn't let him go, she couldn't live like this, it would only be endless emptiness and couldn't extricate herself, and after thinking carefully, she changed her clothes and went to find her boyfriend to reconcile. , of course the ending is a good ending.
I feel sorry for the heroine, it's not easy, that feeling of powerlessness, especially repression, want to love but really can't do it.
If you look at this movie from this angle, it is really a good movie.
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