Unlike family, where blood is thicker than water, and unlike love, where lifelong trust is entrusted, friendship is not linked by any real thing. Therefore, for some people, it is not directly related to their own life, but just a Something of illusory value. For me, although I don't fully understand it, I really realize that it has already been written into my life.
I had four good friends in junior high school, one lost contact while walking, and the other three accompanied me through the stressful high school, the college entrance examination with me, the university entrance, the depression and confusion, and the finding of a life path together.
My mother said to me at that time: "You will have new friends after college and work, but these may not be the case now." I rarely refute my mother's words, but I was very firm that time.
Will not.
I don't even know why I'm so sure. In the end, we were just strangers at the beginning. We went to school together, went to school together, stayed by the side when the other party was disappointed, and proud of her when we succeeded. That's when I learned that it's people and people. They can get along so well, and one person can be kind to another person without any hesitation for the sake of profit.
This is the most precious point of friendship, without reason, from the most genuine human impulse.
Before college, I was immersed in this sweet weaving dream in the company of my friends. I thought that everyone, like me and my friends, could take care of another person unconditionally. It was a year of university, but a lot of cold water was poured on it.
When I first entered college, I was enthusiastic about each roommate, took my heart out, thought for them, and helped them when they were embarrassed. I thought they would treat me the same way, but I only sensed their selfishness and indifference.
Gradually, I found that I used to say in the dormitory: "I'm back." No one responded, and no one even bothered to look at me. I found that no one would answer the questions I asked in the dormitory, and I would not ask my roommates questions. They will be ridiculed and despised by them. Roommates only care about whether they sleep well or not. They will not care if you are allergic to red spots and itchy sleep at night. They will blame you for waking them up the next day. I found that they are not kind, They will ridicule my hometown of Guizhou for having nothing but poverty. They don't care if their words hurt me or others. No wonder they don't have friends.
Having been with people like this for a long time, in addition to learning to be indifferent to them, I miss my friends more and more, the warmest and kindest person in the world, it is so nice to meet them.
The conviction at that time was planted in the depths of my soul, and now I am even more sure that they are my lifelong friends.
I love them, it has nothing to do with their education or background, I just love them, no matter what they become , and I'd be more embarrassed. As Jess said at the end: "But Milly would be delighted to know that I am finding it impossible to replace her..." Jess may have discovered it long ago, just don't say it, the two of them said at the end: " I love you."
The friendship in the movie, I already have it, the first time I saw the name of the poster, it hit my heart, I really want to say to them,
Miss you already.
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